I bet this has probably never been asked. I was shy the very first time I went to TTR years ago but after that you couldn't keep clothes on me. I am currently undergoing breast reconstruction after having a double mastectomy due to breast cancer. I was hoping to be done by May 1st but I won't be. I am due to have nipple reconstruction 6 days before the trip which I am going to skip. I wouldn't want any complications while in Mexico. I hate wearing a top and hate tan lines but don't want to freak anyone out.
We are first timers but from everything I have heard it would be sad if people freaked out about it. Probably more curiosity than anything. The whole concept is to be happy and free and explore the boundries of life correct? Really I would let one or half or one nipple or whatever hang out! You have beat the dreaded C and you have earned that right! Party On! Peace Out
Well, I can't speak for TTR as I'm a newbie (first trip is May 15-22!) but as a long-time Key West resident (and if you know Key West you know the city's motto is "One Human Family" -- quite accepting of all sorts of different folks) a number of women with single and double mastectomies (and women and men with a variety of other situations, medical issues, scars, and what-not) used to bare it all at the clothing optional resort and no one really cared. I mean, sure, people looked but generally in the same way a person looks at everyone else's bodies, hairstyles, feet, etc. You're here, you're alive, now live a little and fuck anyone who thinks differently!
You have every right having gone through such an experience.Go for it enjoy yourself and if someone has a problem we will just kick their as$es!:icon_biggrin:
If we were going to be there in May we would be the first to hug you and pat you on the back.........Congrats on kicking that C's arse. :aktion033:
Sweetie you know I wouldn't be freaked out by ya at allllllllll!!! But I just love you to pieces.. kinda like a Barbie thing. I love Barbie. Let them be free!!!!
Awwww - thanks everyone. My drunk ass will probably forget I have no nipples and the top will come off. I have been doing reconstruction since Aug 2010. I wasn't happy with the first outcome. I am so used to it myself now. Having nips will be weird, lol.
BTW Carole is one of the strongest people I have met. She kicked cancers ass and smiled through the while time. Friggen love her!!!!!
We don't give a rat's ass what anybody else thinks, we do what makes us feel good. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable Carole, and anyone who gets freaked out is prob just a loser anyways, forget them. See you in May!
