Will true lifestyle/swinger couples be bored at Temptation compared to Hedo or Desire?

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  1. lovinlifeafter40

    lovinlifeafter40 Enthusiast Registered Member

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    We are a lifestyle couple who usually goes to PC for the best beaches and luxury resorts but there is little to no lifestyle people that we run into..Hedo and Desire resorts and beaches can't compete to the Domican by any means...Trying to find a happy medium but worried just the topless option will bore us...the stories I read about Temptation sound very mild to someone who works as a bartender in a swingers bar...yet I'm still somewhat curious about this place.
     
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    GoGoBlanco Not spoilt, Privileged! Registered Member

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    Short answer: no

    Of course, that's entirely up to you.....
     
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    That’s a choice that really only you can make.

    It does sound though that your are used to somethings else and kinda looking for it or something really similar.

    Is the number of people visibly having sex at a resort a determination of boredom because if so that is likely going to be an issue.

    However acceptance of anyplace or any circumstance as it is actually frees a person to enjoy it as is. I know..., I know - Trying to not get preachy.

    So...., Cancun is fun and it’s likely different to Hedo but that shouldn’t really cause you to be bored. The flight might be a bit boring or so too might be waiting for your luggage. People partying topleess optional and there being tons of sexy fun socializing does not seem at all boring but everyone sees things through their own lens.

    I’m reminded though of how comparison is known as the thief of joy so I encourage you to be in the moment wherever to are and just accept it as it is. You’ve already said you are “worried” so that’s not really a good start. If it’s that worrisome though maybe just plan to stick with what you know.

    Alternatively Temptation & Desire have lots of folks with an intent to have fun right where they are and with whoever they are hanging out with so if thats what you are looking for then our experience is you will find it in Cancun too.

    Happy travels !!
     
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    we are swingers and we have a lot of fun at Temptation. Usually we do half our trip at Temptation and half at Desire. we find thats the best way. We love the party at TTR but after a few days we're ready to switch it up to a different kind of party. Also check out the sister website ..CancunSwingers.Com. (there will be plenty of swingers at Temptation. they just wont be as easy to sort out)
     
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    lovinlifeafter40 Enthusiast Registered Member

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    That's exactly what we decided on...5 nights are TTR then Pearl for 4 nights...hoping for a fun August crowd
     
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    JamesNEva Enthusiast Registered Member

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    thank you for the site. making an account now!
     
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    We wish it was just as easy to find swingers at other resorts!
     
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    We are actually arriving with local friends. Honestly though, we go with the flow, if we don't meet anybody than we go at it alone.
     
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    David_Thelma Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Well, we're not classified as "swingers" simply because we've never tried it. We'll be there 7/10-15 and hoping to gain the title then!
     
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    nikku111 Enthusiast Registered Member

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    which dates in august? we will be there august 4th to 7th.
     
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