What do you do when not everyone in your group wants to get naked/sexy?

I have a question. The group we are visiting with are all extremely fun people who love to drink, chill out, laugh their asses off and just have a good old time. HOWEVER, most of them will (probably) not have lingerie, thigh-high boots, corsets, G-Strings, titty tassles or other 'dress up" type clothing with them. I'd say 3/4 of the ladies will go topless, but I am sure they will just have sexy tops, dresses and skirts packed with them.

ATTENTION...there are definitely no prudes among us....but we are ladies who invest more in toys than clothes (selfish, I know! hee hee!)

Now, I bring this up because my hubbs and I have been to both Desire Cabo & Cancun and for those of you who have gone there, you KNOW the outfits (or lack there of) can be out of this world, but we really enjoyed taking it all in and the first trip and participating during the 2nd trip.

So...with all that being said...will we be the "odd ones out" if we don't have Fredricks of Hollywood ensembles on every night, cuz quite frankly, I personally think it takes a shit load of time to get dressed & prepped, only to want to take it all off an hour later and get into comfy clothes ( that still make our tits look great!!) so we can drink & laugh the night away. :huh:

My thoughts are that even though we won't be sporting the sex pot clothes, the personality, fun atmosphere & just good people vibe should suffice, correct? By the way, trust me, my husband & I have laid the ground work to the others for what they should expect, but I think we are all on the same page that we just wanna go and have a good time rather than plan our wardrobes for each night. Your thoughts?

 

You definatly won't be left out. The resort has a huge mix of people that wear whatever their comfortable in. Be it short mini skirt, sheer tops or just shorts and a t-shirt. It's your vacation away from home where you can dress and feel any way you want so enjoy it. No one's going to think your being a downer if your not showing enough crack.:ass:

 

We are with you also... Lori will be the first one to be topless by the pool and she wears some sexy clothes to... But we are more with comfort for hanging out. She likes to show off her boobs and I like it when she does. That is such a turn on when I see her that way.

 

I don't plan on taking clothes for the theme nights. I've gotten to a professional 'little' clothes shopper and packer and don't want to have to bring a lot of other things with me. I'm positive you won't be the only one that just wants to wear sexy clothes. My friend and I will be right there with you. Good times will be had by all...guaranteed!

 

Yeah...glad to hear that it is pretty laid back! My husband and I are pretty much the "ring leaders" for organizing this trip and I definitely want to make sure that my friends know what they are getting themselves into so that they can completely kick back and enjoy themselves. However, I really didn't want anyone to feel the pressure of having to go out, spend more money on more stuff/clothing that they'd have to pack...especially if they weren't into it as much as others but didn't want to be the "odd ones out" not participating. Who wants to feel like that on their vacation anyways!!!???

 

There are lots of choices at TRC and no right or wrong way to enjoy your trip. Sounds like you have given your group a good understanding of what may or may not go on at TRC, and I am sure they will decide on their own just how much they want to do and how crazy that want to get while doing it. We were all TRC virgins and do things differently as repeaters than we did that first trip.

Saying that, I do my best to make sure that everyone in the group had some sort of plan for lingerie/Casino night. Best night of the week at TRC!

 

When we were there, there was a woman who simply wore a red thong and a white men's dress shirt with heels and nothing else. She wore it to Patty O's a couple of times. She wore it very well, too! :bowdown:

 

TRC is all about attitude and no one judges, no matter what you wear. I enjoy dressing up in some of my outfits because it just isn't an option at home; but then I'm lucky that hair and make-up for me does not take very much time. You could wear sweats every night to the bars and no one's gonna bat an eyelash.

 

"You could wear sweats every night to the bars and no one's gonna bat an eyelash."

And that is what I like to hear! Not that it would happen, but more so that there are no expectations! Nice!

Seriously...let's all just go today! LOL!

 

Theme nights are okay but hell i like just wearing my skirts and tanks too. Kinda fun to go with the flow and be yourself. Be comfortable being you.