Hey Everyone! We're brand new to the forum, as well as to TTR (Haven't been yet but excitedly planning a trip) and we had a question. Please feel to tell us if there is a more appropriate place for this. We're interested in "The Lifestyle" and the potential of meeting like minded couples on our trip. We've read about different ways to show that you're approachable or open to the idea, but with us being new to all of this and never having the experience of even being approached, we're wondering if there is an etiquette to showing "Hey, we're open to the idea of playing, but just not today"? Again, we're complete newbies to all of this but it's something we've discussed for a long time. We just want to make sure that even if we're saying no to someone at that time, they feel like they can come back later and strike up a conversation again Thanks for your input and all the other great info on this forum! Keep up the good work Tom and Jess