newbie and 2 other single male staying at Temptation. Seems like single guys are not accepted much. To be honest i was abit iffy after my mate told me it was a swingers hotel but intrigued at same time. I dont want to feel like a outsider so what tips please for single guys?
Yup, not a swingers hotel like Dan said, it happens to some degree depending on the clientelle there that week but far from a lock. As for the rest, I believe I can sum it up in the immortal words of Red Foreman from That 70's show... Just don't be a dumbass lol! Be respectful of others and assume you need to be on good behaviour. Other than that you'll be golden!
I guess from what we have been reading lately the best tip would be not to be a douchebag...jk that word has been thrown our there quite a bit in the last week. Just be yourself, have fun, and treat others with respect... It's pretty simple really...
TTR is not exclusively for swingers. There are people there from all walks of life and of all ages. You'll notice a number of threads bashing some of the single guys going there. Some guys think that because they heard it was a swingers resort they can hit on any woman. Some guys have gotten so drunk they become, well dirtbags, disrespectful and very rude. You and your buddies can go to TTR and have a great time. If you're interested in swinging, wait to be invited. Swingers will approach you with respect and class. If you're not interested, politely decline and continue to have a good time. TTR is a party resort where so many things are going on. Be a part of the fun and just go with the flow. If your respectful to the staff, other guests and property, you'll have a great time. Write a trip report when you return and tell us how it was. Cheers.
Just some tips- 1. Be respectful. 2. Don't touch unless you're invited. 3. Don't stalk. 4. No means no. 5. If you're approaching a couple, regardless of your intent, the guy's opinion of you matters too- both of us have the brake pedal and access to the ejection seat lever. Ok those are the harsh ones- here are a few more that go for pretty much everyone, not just single guys 1. Be nice. 2. Don't get fall down drunk- never attractive to anyone. 3. Be polite- please and thank you matter. 4. Be there to party, laugh, and make friends- the rest - if anything- is just a bonus. There's more of course, I am sure people will chime in. Nick (and the desirable Kitty)tm
hav n fun great way to put it, I think the main thing is dont get fall down stupid drunk and just respect everyone in general, u will have a blast, just remember the hotel goes to a different club every night but to bring someone back i think cost 75 bucks Mike