Our first time going just curious some of the nights have no problem dressing up some of them not sure about ( male half ) so question is would he be the only or is there always some that dont Thanks in advance
I can only speak for the May Mayhem Maniacs!! But Yes the guys do join in on the Fun!! If you like check out the picture album in the community link above! Each month is different as far as themes
Read the official roll call threads for the month you're going, and you'll get a good sense of the participation level of the people who will be there at the same time as you. It really varies week to week. Keep in mind that there are lots of hotel guests who aren't on this site, so there will always be a significant number not participating, and there will always be more women participating than men. If you like extra attention and want an instant conversation starter, participating in the themes is an easy way to get that. If you are uncomfortable standing out from the crowd, though, it can be out of your comfort zone. We are always more comfortable having a group to show up with instead of walking into PatyO's by ourselves, so we often meet at the quiet pool bar first. Just talk to people at the pool during the day and you'll be able to work out details.
When your post count reaches 5 , you can browse through the albums on here and get a sense of the participation level . You can be part of the party , or the person on the outside looking at the party ,, which do you want to be ??
We are participating!!! But you don't have to inorder to have a blast! Bring stuff and decide then. I bought my hubby sheer underwear and a sheer tank top...hope he wears it lol! Sent from my XT1254 using Tapatalk
Well if i read temptations theme night right , guys for for that night is boxers or pajamas so think he will do that one ,it is the bdsm / leather night not sure if he will do lol
It's really 50/50 on participation. lingerie night i wore boxers but there were many make outfits if rather not see again. White night had higher participation than others as well. For bdsm just have him dress in black if he wants to fit in.
