Question, my wife and I will be going for our first time and are alittle worried about if we don't dress up for the Theme night. It took alot of talk between us to get her agree to go. She is quite shy while I appear on the JumboTron at every game cause I like to be large and incharge. She puts up with my costumes extra, but usually stands off to watch. We have read some reviews on people who don't like the amount of non-theme wearers and it comes across as we are pervs. I want a great experience for her, but it willbe slow and steady, bad vibes from people who don't like she might not take her top off will go really bad for the vacation. Am I looking to deep? CP
pretty sure the bad vibe comment was aimed at single guys that don't participate and look like pervs. that said , the participation level is so high , that you will feel more uncomfortable not participating then participating. you don't have to go all out ,, just sexy club wear, you will fit in , browse through he public albums on here there are lots of pics different week have different levels too
She can participate in most of the theme nights by just color coordinating. White night, red night and leather. She will not be ridiculed for being modest. It's all about comfort level and its very non-judgemental. She will most likely be complemented regardless of how racy she dresses. As for the lingerie night, there are plenty of full coverage things she could wear. As stated above, the "perv" comment doesn't apply to shy ladies. Having heard that they are allowing lingerie NON-PARTICIPATORS into new shoes does sound creepy and might make me rethink my outfit because I don't want a bunch of guys gawking at me while they're fully clothed. Go on Nastydress.com. it's wicked cheap. Any club wear will do. However, it IS A LOT of fun to let your inner slut out but that usually takes time. There are plenty of women who keep tops on, me included. I'm more comfortable with it on (but it has come off here and there, when I feel like it). Advise her to not fret about it. She will have fun no matter how she dresses.
Thank you guys, that is a relief, now the big question The Boob Cruise is it something we can handle later in the week once she is more comfortable with her "inner Slut"? CP
Each cruise is different, but they are all full of fun. There is usually nudity and sexual behavior is heavily encouraged. It seems that the person that does not take their top off is heavily picked on throughout the day until the top comes off........consider this fair warning. It is a great time, but please give her the information and let her choose if she can handle it or not. Many shy people attend, but they are also able to handle the sexual content encouraged by the entertainment.
Embrace your inner SLUT! There is 100 plus people on an amazing catamarann with copious amounts of alcohol. The chances that you'll see any of these people again for the rest of your life is pretty damn slim unless you enjoy them so much that you'll seek them out for another vacation. So.............SLUT it up! After your trip is up you'll only remember the cruise except in your fantasies.
The Boobs Cruise is a blast and often the highlight of each trip, but if she doesn't want to take her top off and doesn't like attention, I would say that this may not be for her. I have been a couple of times when I felt bad for the girl who wouldn't take it off. All the tops come off as soon as you step foot on the boat. If she does that, she can stay out of the limelight, otherwise, all eyes on her. As for theme nights, no one will pay any attention either way, but she'll have more fun if she participates.
'thanks guys I really think I am just too overprotected of her feelings, She is not a prude, just never been topless outside of our Hot Tub CP
Your wife sounds a lot like me, My husband had to do a lot of talking to get me to go in the first place. Took me 4 days to take of my top by the pool last year in Oct. This will be our 4th trip this Feb. We did the Boobs Cruise our 2nd trip and had a blast. If she doesn't take her top off on the cruise she'll stick out like a sore thumb lol. Now I wonder why I pack bikini tops at all. The theme nights are a lot more fun if you dress up, but sexy lil dresses work to. Have fun.
