Help a girl out?? I see posts from husbands asking if their are going to be any "available" men to help please their wives on this forum. But what if the tables are turned? What if I/we would like to find an available lady to join us? What is the proper terminology? Is this a thing? Or can I just ask any lady to S my hubby's D with me? lol HALP! And since we're on the topic...what is a soft swap?
HA! Fair enough...... I just didn't want to have all the fun to myself. lol But it looks like I may have no choice.
Yes, the wonderful, mythical Unicorn. Such a rare and special find. Though they are as hard to find as legend says. But they do exist, maybe you shall be lucky enough......,
Well..,, You can always ask if the lady in question has a “hall pass” from hubby. If yes then voila ! Unicorn..., at least temporarily.
Be honest and upfront of what your looking for is all i will say here ... the cancun swingers forum can answer most questions with more detailed info,,, (.Y.)
A couple of answers... you will be more successful if you offer to return the favor. Soft swap is everything short of penetration. Now that I read it, yes, probably more appropriate on the other forum.
Stating the obvious (I think but maybe not)... your husband (really both of you) need to have game to score one of the unicorns. We actually find it just as likely that the husband of a couple would allow a wife to play alone. Typically he wants to watch so you have to decide whether that is ok with you both. Be sure to state your intentions. Communication is the key so expectations are aligned and no one gets upset. Key to making it all happen is being out going and taking the risk to throw it out there and having the convo.
