Not really seen this conversation on the boards before, so here goes. Temptation is one of the more open, fun, and care-free resorts we've ever experienced (5th trip coming up in June!!!) That said, we occasionally run into a "slut shaming" vibe. We don't think it's ever been directed at us per se, but we have definitely seen it aimed at others. Three questions: 1) Has anyone else ever seen this occur? 2) What effect does it have on the Temptation experience? 3) What is your definition of too slutty? I'm sure there are a number of perspectives here. Let's hear 'em!
I've never seen it. Thank god. No ones freakin business what someone else does Guy or girl. People need to keep their judgements in check.
Have never seen anything like that at TTR and don't honestly understand why someone would even do it?
I've only experienced it once. I threw it back at them. Nothing to be worried about. Definitely don't allow someone to turn down your sluttiness!!
We've never come across that. Actually Mrs Shiner, and the rest of the ladies for that matter, have been given nothing but encouragement! Yet another reason to love TTR!!! Tom & Lorie-headed for another round of encouragement in June.:lotsofmichaelfs:
Deb has received a few rolling eyeballs, however we don't care what anyone thinks. We go to enjoy the people and ourselves in an adult manner once a year. If sluttiness is a problem, our Fetish night outfits are going to test the waters.
I am ashamed to admit this but I am slutty!!! This is all part of my 10 step pre Temptation program I think I'm at acceptance....
