After 30+years of marriage my wife has finally become comfortable in her own skin, and is no long shy about revealing her body in the appropriate setting such as Temptations. She is well preserved for a lady of 50+ years with all the wear and tear, and gravity effect that the years have dealt her. Her delima is not rooted in self confidence, but rather in acceptance. We have all seen the men and women wearing shit they should not (and I applaud theme). She thinks no one wants to look at an old woman scarcely clad. My response is that older men do, and that nothing is sexier than an older confident woman strutting her stuff. Her question to you is: Conservative bottom, or sexy barely there g string type?
As always the answer is whatever she is comfortable with... If she's got it, flaunt it. If she is going to be self-conscious the whole time and not enjoy herself, then don't. Once she gets there she can see what other people are doing and how everyone is reacting. That might calm some of her concerns. Another idea is to bring both. Try the g-string and if she doesn't feel right, switch. Maybe a couple of days later she might switch back. Bottom-line is that it's her vacation too, and whatever way she feel comfortable is the way she should go. I've always found that the less one pushes or comments about something the more one is likely to do it. We see guys always pushing their wives/girlfriends into taking off their tops, for example. The ladies always refuse. Once the guys stop bringing it up and the ladies see other ladies topless, the tops seem to come off naturally. So I’d say bring both and let the mood strike her as to which way to go one which days. Jamie
"She thinks no one wants to look at an old woman scarcely clad." I use to worry about the same thing, but what I've found about Temptations its not about other people, its about yourself. She will see people of all ages, shapes and sizes doing what they want and wearing what they are comfortable wearing. Another thing about Temptations is its not about age its only a number, you are as young as you feel. And some young men also enjoy the beauty of an older woman, "nothing is sexier than a confident woman strutting her stuff"
My gf is tiny(110 lbs) n only 35 and last year was the first time ever she wore a thong bikini.Only cause SHE was comfortable with it. So thats my advice. Do whatever she is happy with, cause if mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!
I dont agree....if everyone only did what was comfortable they would miss most of the exciting options in life....dont just do what makes you comfortable! Push your own boundries and find excitement beyond your current comfort level....so the only answer to the original question is - when you are at a place like Temptation definetly show it off!
I agree. If you push your personal boundaries at TTR, you do feel better for it. You'd be hard pushed to find me in anything less than a fully skirted swimsuit at home, but I faced my fears and wore only a bikini bottom on some days, and boy did I feel better for it! Agree with the 'no comment' from the guys though too. My husband wouldn't dream of asking me to take it off, put it on or anything in between and I really respect him for that!
