the other day "wednesday" would you mind if i started meeting someone else? (we finished bout 3 weeks ago) spoke to her on saturday and she is meeting some lad i was slightly jealous so i said fair enough bla bla bla then i txt her later on saying "am happy you have found someone i hope we can still be friends" she replies "i hope so too" so i replied "i know ur fella is a rebound we will get back together soon lol" she replies "i have known him for 10 years haha" so i said "am only joking i think its best like this because like u have said we are too similar" here comes the bombshell "i know because u never really turned me on all that much!!" what do i make of that? have i got a chnace of getting back with her or not?
Um............... if ya never turned her on, I would say NO! :? Move on, find another!! Keep that your head up, good things will come!
why would you want to get back with someone that says something like that? that's right up there with 'I never really loved you.' move on.
If the both of you are too similar, maybe that's a real issue with her. It is an issue for some peeps. For others, they are so much alike (physically and otherwise) they might be twins, but that's the way they like it. Am thinking this is almost like a "Sleepless in Seattle" situation, where Meg Ryan realizes that she and her fiancee are so alike they can almost read each other's minds. Too much alike for her. Too comfortable. So she jumps ship and runs after Tom Hanks across the country. Leave her alone, but stay in touch as friends. Maybe this is an opportunity for you to look for a soulmate.
anytime. Now then.... Anyone else on here with an ex bird who you cant push the buttons for and who may have been banging someone else for ten years need any advice from Dr Ian..... I'm listening.... Ian :lol: :lol: