Near the Paty O is to loud in my opinion. It seems the noise never goes down and sometimes ya need to sleep.lol We love the hottub rooms. Cost more but hey your on vaca right:clappyinghappy:
Go for a jacuzzi room, I'm certain you'll have more fun there. Leave the shade up when you take a dip, I think that's how most lifestylers do it.
the jacuzzi rooms are all by the quiet pool... You may get better answers about the "lifestyle" stuff over on cancunswingers.com