We checked the advertising for this resort to make sure it was not a swingers resort but upon arrival we quickly discovered that it was. We walk in lots of sexy guests wearing next to nothing even the girls working were wearing a tee but then they had a skirt with their butt cheeks hanging out. We were quickly offered a drink! Time share set up. iGNORE the early morning meeting !!!! It is NOT to show you around it is just a set up to try to get you to spend more money and you DONT need it our trip was perfectly fine without anything extra! They make it seem mandatory but we walked away before it even began they try to make you stay but I walked away as they were still talking to me and they gave up. Skip this I cannot stress that enough. Booking Restaurants The only restaurant you really need to book is SHE. They say you need to book sutra but we loved sutra so much we went once with a reservation and twice without. The only thing is you get better service if you book but if you forget to you can still go it’s delicious sushi and the cooks have a show as they prepare the food right before your eyes. A lot of people said not to eat at SHE. A lot of people so many we almost canceled our reservation but we ended up going and we both loved it. I loved the unique blend of flavours they are more focused on stimulating your taste buds. It’s a 7 course meal and you don’t get to decide what you eat. Everyone gets served at the same time with the same food it was so cozy in there you get a private pod like table with your partner and they all face the stage and sexy girls come out to dances s out on a show. I enjoyed it it was our last night so it was nice to relax for a bit. Dinner lasted about 45 minutes. On my first night I was not too impressed with the amount of topless it made me a little uncomfortable so I decided to drink... a lot lol. i danced in lingerie all night then my boyfriend decided it was time to leave at around 2am, when I got out of the party zone I went downhill from there, I was too drunk to walk. Security came and they tried to separate me and my boyfriend because they thought I was being date rapped since I was so out of it but once they collected all our Information they got my a wheelchair to wheel me to my room lmao and they cut off my bracelet. This is what my boyfriend told me the next day. I don’t remember this night . The next morning they gave me a new bracelet. I do appreciate them looking out for women who are very drunk ! I really liked that they looked into the situation. Rooms Our room was by the quiet pool THANK GOODNESS!! Even being far from the sexy pool we could still hear the music go on till very late hours! It was hard to sleep on our early nights. But I loved the rooms they were nice. Not too much of a fan of the bathroom door not closing but whatever it make us closer I guess haha . We both loved the shower it was sexy. It was so big and fun to play in. More about the food I loved the buffet I did ! I always found things I really enjoyed and went back for seconds qui te often. The grilled salmon that they cook on the spot was delicious along with plenty of other things. The Italian Romanza was one of our favourites the wine was not excellent but it was alright and the food and service was excellent. Mexican I did not like the lobster! It came out as a soup and I’m not a picky eater but this was the only thing at the resort that I did not finish because yuck lol but the appetizers were delicious I love the guacamole at this resort! So good. Sea of flirt This was the best place for breakfast! They have fruit mixed drinks one was called the energizer the other I can’t remember the name but it had parsley and it was so good, I loved both it was a nice healthy drink to have before the boozing. And the food was excellent. The coffee shop on the lobby was also my favorite I had vanilla cappuccino s every morning with baileys. Its a beautiful little nook. I also met a lot of women who became friends at this shop. playmakers I didn’t interact with any except Jordan she was cute as a button she got me to go dance with her on stage she was great . There was another blonde one with long hair I think her name was Natalie and she was VERY Into herself lol always changing her hair and disappearing to check her reflection in the windows just totally into herself which rubs me the wrong way . All the others were so sexy and sweet. I hated seeing some of the things they had to deal with. Pretending to be having a blast all day felt very tiering for them I couldn’t imagine doing that and having to dance on bar tops all day by the pool Also they have to tolerate old drunk men dancing with them. One guy was getting way to close to one of the playmakers the playmaker was actually Jordan her and this man were on the stage dancing. Me and my boyfriend had the hardest time watching that. The playmaker was all smiles but I could tell it was not at all fun for her we felt so bad we called it a night. It made me so sad. She was probably like 22 and he was over 45 and just so in her face. Not cool. She was trying to control the situation while trying to make it look like she’s still having fun. I wanted to step in so bad. Theme nights I’d say 80% participants. It was fun to get dressed with your partner and go out looking silly. I loveD it. I wish they people that worked there were a little more dressed but whatever it was fun. Sexy Pool You have to be up by 9 30 to reserve chairs at after that you are out of luck We love all these games - they even got us to enter the best couple contest- We crushed all three games and won the whole thing it was great! The male host at the game was so funny the things he would say. Girl would flash right away and he would just say wow miss your too forward hahaha just hilarious. Then one women tried to touch his engagement ring and he’s just like Woa lady that’s expensive. Lol just the way he says things in his accent was the best. It is moments like these that are preciou Attractiveness of crowd Were young and fit we noticed probably about 5 other young cute couples our age. I notice a lot of older not so attractive guys with younger hot girls , definitely sugar daddy the women were plastic. It was a little weird b it hey no ones holding a gun to their head they obviously love the money. There were a lot of good looking women I didn’t see too many hot guys till the last couple days of my stay. % of toplessness It would vary but around 80%. I wore a top but I was in the minority for sure. Sometimes we would leave the sexy pool because I wanted a break of the topless but there was no escaping it. They were at the quiet pool and at the beach. Just everywhere. Singles We met some really cool single guys, who had a great time I also saw a couple of leering creepy guys- I personally would not really recommend Temptations for single people - I think you would have more fun elsewhere. Lifestyle % of couples in lifestyle I didn’t met any couple who wasn’t in the lifestyle. Girls would come ask me if we’re into swinging and that’s how I would Met our friends. But we didn’t talk to more then 20 couples so it’s hard to say. Also one night two girls wanted to join me and my boyfriend. They were friends and though we were hot I was very flattered lol. Craziest things I saw we me and my bf joined the hot tub , there was only one other couple in there and I am 90% sure they were just finishing up something under the water he made faces and the lady was kind of on top of him i think she was giving him a hand job so we got out quick. We say people fucking on the balconies. One girl was topless and going to other girls to make out with them she would make her rounds to strangers and make out with anyone this girl did this for like 3 days straight during the day. I don’t think I would go back it was too much of a girls gone wild situation witch is a lot for all day 7 days straight , there was no getting away from the topless either it was just a little too much but I did have fun and made the best of my stay and I have memories I’ll never forget!
I found it interesting too. I just don’t understand the part about needing to get away from the toplessness. What was wrong with the toplessness? Were you uncomfortable since you were not used to seeing it? Please explain. Very interested. Re the swingers resort point. I am guessing that since you mentioned you only talked to 20 couples and it sounds like they actually approached you to talk, likely you are attractive and the swingers were hoping to have some fun. If you would of gone and talked to others I am sure you would of found more people that are either there just to party or are not swingers but hey if something happens around the party it happens. Often referred to as swayers. Dependent on the week we think it is 1/3rd there to party, 1/3rd swayers and 1/3rd swingers but of course we have gone weeks where it is 50-60% lifestyle. Just an estimate of course. But we do mingle with a lot of people.
A little more research may have helped before coming to this topless optional party resort. I realize and respect everyone’s right to their own opinion but I found this a little to judgemental for our liking. IMHO
So you went to a known topless resort that is most often described as being the best ADULT party in Cancun, with the likelyhood of encountering swingers, and are surprised you saw butt cheeks and boobs? Not sure I understand your thinking in this respect, but thank God you are both young and fit and could soldier through any difficulties. I am glad you generally enjoyed the restaurants and pool time. The best advice I can offer in this situation is a snipet learned from a TTR veteran (At the ancient age of 44 no less!) as she was confronted by another woman appalled by blatant swingers, too much skin, and general debauchery she had not yet bought into. Her response was priceless, and I tender it for consideration...... "Give it a day chickee."
You didn't mention your Boobs Cruise ??….. Perhaps Cap d'Adge in the South of France might be an option from TTR, for your next vacation, there it's not topless, purely total nakedness, pool parties not quite so wild and fun but the attire and beach party are massively wilder than the current TTR... having said that, we still hope to return to TTR next year to continue the party (and Cap d'Adge !!!). An older.. not too attractive guy but up for being totally wild LOL
Your completely right about us not talking to other people it was mainly people coming to us but we made such good friends with the women who would approach me! So that kept us busy we never ended up going to talk to someone ourselves and putting ourselves out there. we made such good friends with the swingers we loved them their so interesting we hung out with one couple a lot their room was next door ! It was awesome but yes your right obviously mainly swingers will approach and if you wanna just make friends you would have to go out looking for them. As for the topless me and my boyfriend asked his aunt and uncle about the resort before booking and he said most people wear a tops. I was 100 percent not prepared to talk to topless people I also just pictured girls tanning topless not dancing and mingling topless lol it just was too much for me . I’m okay with topless I just didn’t like being with my guy there because I wanted to have some moments where I had his attention so we would go do excisions and then I would get back and feel prepared to see all the tits again. It just made me jealous after a while. And I let him sleep with other girls but for whatever reason I was not a fan of him being around that many topless people. I wanna get over it though because I love the lifestyle. Everyone has something that erks them. For example we met a couple they are full blown swinger they love unicorns she loves the topless aspect she loves orgies BUT she does not let her bf watch porn she gets jealous of porn. My mind was blown. I felt way better about feeling uncomfortable about the topless when she told me that. It’s just who I am it’s too much of a free for all and I found there was not much for us women to get too see it was all male oriented. Even the male playmakers didn’t dance on table tops like whyyyy !!!
I can’t explain why I don’t like the topless you’ll have to read my other reply . If this resort wasn’t topless I would come back every vacation once a year at least I love the sexy outfits!!! I just don’t like tits out.
Swayers is the term eh lol. Interesting haha. I do like this post because i see where you’re coming from. However I loved every single second of Temptation. God I had fun.
Oh I’m not judging anyone at all !!! I think it’s great that there’s a place to do that. It was just too much for me I’m not gonna pretend to feel accepted on this forum. I can’t explain why I didn’t like it I guess I just felt jealous and I also usually go up to people and chat I love socializing with new people I love it and I felt uncomfortable going to talk to someone topless so it prevented me of talking to o people which I didn’t like. People are less intimidating with a top on lol. It’s my opinion in sticking to it I overall loved the atmosphere I would just never go back for 7 days maybe 4
