Hopefully this is not redundant, I tried to search the forum before making this post. My husband and I have been living the lifestyle for about a year and a half now. We are looking in to TTR possibly next April. We haven't set a date in snow yet. We've had several fun experiences as a couple, inviting other people into our room. This is a big step for us. So I wanted to get a little up-to-date information about what to expect. I have had four kids, and I am by no means in the shape of us for kids ago. I'm also not extremely overweight but things are not in the spots they used to be . So I'm a little insecure about showing myself off. I would hate to pull up to this beautiful place and see nothing but beautiful women . Can we expect to see all body types? I want to fit in not stick out . Also, We are just figuring out our boundaries as far as what we are comfortable with. I'm sure with every place you have to deal with pushy people, but can we expect to go and have our fun and not be constantly harassed? We are okay with telling people no thank you, as we are putting ourselves in this situation, but is it expected? Honestly we just wanna go out be naked, and let things were comfortable with happen. Another question about the alcohol. Obviously tequila is going to be the drink of choice. I'm not the picky drinker, but he does like his Jack Daniels. Is there any place to get it? And am I going to be expected to pay two or three times the price for it? Any other advice would be amazing. We are so out of our element doing this. I'm very introvert and he is just a country boy lol. But we made promises this year that we would branch out and live more.
hello, name is Darrile, we are heading to Grand miches in Fed 2024, we annuallwego to hedo in Jamaica. all I can say, is there is every shape, color, size and age that are naked and don't care, and 99% will agree. in Jamaica you are accepted for who you are not what you look like. we are hoping GM is the same, as it is a clothing optional resort, the group that is going, Is planning on being nude as much as possible. and tough if people don't like it. I hope you make friends and have a great time. will let you know how GM was when we get back. D.
Thank you for your input! I know it's my insecurities lol. But when you're not 20 anymore, it's a challenge sometimes . I'm sure I'll be buzzed enough to eventually not care.
as you get older, you will find you dont care and you will also find that your filter doesn't always work. lol. and hey, if you want a guaranteed good timecome join us at GM. in Feb. we don't judge and we will be nekkid as much as possible, so even if you don't join us, nobody will notice you, they will all be pointing and whispering about us. lol, and we don't care....
We’ve been to TTR and Desire both (prefer Desire, just our likes) and you will see all body types, ages and degrees of nudity. Wife has had 6 children and we know things aren’t where they once were plus we are early 50’s now. We go and have fun every time. Yes you will find those judgmental folks but you will also find the ones you want to hang with. My suggestion, go with no expectations and have fun. Btw we aren’t in the lifestyle but skirt the line very close. Who knows maybe one day. Also your hubs can buy his Jack in the duty free areas of the airport.
Welcome to the group! Temptation really is a very inclusive judgment free party zone so almost all ages, builds, shapes, and orientations will be represented. Temptation is lifestyle friendly, but not a swinger resort. So that means while no one will freak out if they find out you are lifestyle, many guests won't necessarily be there to play either. So very low pressure. Most folks are perfectly fine with saying or hearing "thanks for the offer, but not for me/us". Over our 6 trips so far, we have encountered maybe a handful of "pushy" folks (basically all married guys). As far as Jack, they have it at the resort, but it's for members only. However, duty free at airport or liquor stores near resort should have a bottle for purchase.
