My wife and I plan to come down in early July. First time. Looking forward to it. We went to Temptation several years ago, not long before Covid. My questions are related to the general attitudes/interests of people there, which I realize can change from week to week or even day to day. So I’m just asking for generalizations in responses. I think we would be most comfortable with something like same room. Maybe soft swap if my wife is interested in the girl. Possibly even touching or “messing around” with the opposite sex, but NOT a full swap. How unusual is that? How is that viewed by those more experienced? How/when is the best to communicate that to another couple? Is there something people wear to indicate that? We understand no means no, but we want to be fair to others also. Don’t want to lead anyone on thinking more could happen than we would like. I appreciate any responses as we are totally new to all of this and want to be respectful to others. Thank you. David
David, we were new also. Some people will be open to it and others won’t. There are people of all plying styles there. I would get to know people a little, but slip in the play style conversation relatively early. Most people won’t care, but some will and not be as interested. Just like other aspects of the lifestyle, there needs to be a play style compliment in order to work out between two couples.
Just go with no expectation and say hello to everyone. Order shots and just get to know people. A let the women get comfortable and run the show how she wants too. There is so many awesome fun people
