I've been following these threads for a while - long enough to know that another question about the sensual couples massage is beating a dead horse. But, I've got a different take on the question. My wife and I have never done a topless resort. We've certainly never done any type of swinging or having another person present when we are...having fun. Not that either of us are prudes, but it's new to us. And I'm certainly the one more likely to push for broadening our horizons. Would it be crazy for me to book this massage for us as a surprise for my wife? I've read that it's better to not know the details beforehand and to experience it as a surprise. But with us not even staying at Temptations (we'll be at Zilara) would this be too much of a shock without talking about beforehand? And on a side note - would we be able to enjoy the pool post-massage without a day pass? Obviously not the booze and food, but thinking it'd be nice to check out the pool for a bit to see if it's our scene for the next trip. Thanks in advance!
It is not crazy one bit you will both love it, if you have very specific questions you prefer asking privetly you can message us or simply write here for everyone to read. The couple massage from their staff point of view is really professional the actions happens between you and your partner once they close the door and leave you alone... no risks there!
I am not usually one for surprises when it involves pushing limits. But in this case I think it would be a good surprise. The staff will talk to you when you arrive and determine what you are both comfortable with before the massage starts. There will be no pressure one way or the other. If I did a were staying for a week at a topless resort for the first time surprise my wife would not be happy. We are going to spend an hour getting our first sensual massage surprise, my wife would be very happy. Encourage here to push her limits a little and you will both have a great time
Yes it would be crazy to expect your wife to hop out of a cab at the hotel you are not staying at and go to the Temptation Spa for this kind of massage without her prior knowledge, consideration and agreement. Not quite the gentle introduction that she may need to open her mind to possibilities. Surprising her with flowers or jewelry is a really good idea but surprise her with a nude sensual massage, which is a stranger touching all her privates, could be a way bigger negative than you could even begin to imagine. I don’t know your wife though but mine would have been very upset.
A bit of a reality check for you. Have you checked with directly with Temptation that they will let you onto the property to get a massage without first paying for a day pass ?? Generally, almost all AI resorts will not allow anyone not staying at their resort onto their property(let alone use any resort facilities) - the exception is that for those resorts that make it possible to purchase a day pass. Worth a check before you make any serious plans .............
This times 1000! You said it yourself, you are more likely to push the boundaries. Please talk to her before hand. As a man who LOVES to surprise his wife too, I don’t think this the the best idea. But good luck!
We are making our first trip and just discovered this forum. We'd love to talk to someone with experience at Temptation Cancun. We'll be there Jan 2-5. We are not new to this sort of thing but we are new to the resort experience. We have a short trip so we're looking to make the most of it. If anyone has suggestions regarding meeting other like minded couples and expectations, do's and don't's, etc... please feel free to message us. Thank you for all of your input.
Positive outcome = More sexy time with wifey than you've ever imagined. Negative outcome = At best I hope your doghouse is comfortable enough for a very lengthy post-vacation stay. Well punk, are you feeling lucky? Go ahead, roll the dice.
