Hey there We will be visiting temptations for the first time in may (18-21). We have been to temptations Los Cabos about 8 years ago. We aren’t hardcore swingers but do enjoy exhibitionism and soft fun around/with others (does that make us swingers?). We seem to recall the hot tub was a fun place to do this is Cabo’s. are there areas where heavy PDA is accepted or encouraged?
No. If your wife pulls her nipples out in the wrong place, security will pounce your ass. We know from experience.
Wow this is discouraging! We were planning our first trip within the next couple months. My wife is a bit of exhibitionist and likes showing off in public also. We have traveled South Beach, Key West, Carribean where she has had no issues wearing sheer,crotchet,etc tops or super mini skirts in public.....I can understand no sex acts in public. So are you saying she could only go topless in the sexy pool and thats the extent of it?
Sexy pool and beach. Anywhere else, no. It is an all inclusive adult resort with a topless optional pool. Not a topless optional resort. Either desires, or a LS Cruise would suite you much better.
Technically no but that's part of the fun of it IMO. Getting a "yellow card" is on my checklist for this upcoming trip. Our last trip (pre renovation) we we're stopped by security for "sex acts in the pool" although it was just body shots. In actuality I think the bartender was just tired of washing glasses after our 5th order of 20 shots!
Different strokes for different folks. We didn't pay thousands of dollars to be reprimanded like children for fun. It's embarrassing, and demeaning. I was offering advice to the OP. If they are looking for sexual liberation, Temptation is not where they are going to find it.
We tend to strongly disagree with the post saying the topless look or sexy apparel is strictly limited to the sexy pool or beach. From first hand experience it has been MUCH different for us. There are LOTS of very tiny bottoms that may be sheer, crochet, g-strings, and sometimes just a string worn for bottoms, with no negative consequences in any of our 6 or 7 trips. I should know, I've bought a lot of them! And we are not the only ones. During our October trip, 7 of the ladies in our group decided on a theme for each day, with a corresponding suit. (Bottoms only of course) It was all of the type I mentioned, and one day the theme was simply pearls. You will see many ladies strolling back and forth to their room, the bar, the restroom, and many other places wearing nothing more. That being said, you'll probably want a wrap of some type to walk through the main lobby or into a restaurant, (that's just polite and common sense) but you won't need it anywhere else, and nobody is going to say a word. As for PDA, if you are not trying to put on a show in the main pool (most save that for their balcony or open window / door), there is quite a bit that happens in and around the grounds and pool. First hand knowledge there as well. We were discreet and not trying to put on a show for anybody, and it seemed like a fun idea at the time. (And I was right!) Might we suggest you don't miss the Thursday foam party. Anyway, perhaps the experience of others was not the same as ours or more was expected, but you'll NEVER run out of sexy possibilities at TTR. As one other post suggested, don't overthink it. You will have loads of sexy fun! No worries!
There is no disagreement with anything you said, however it was a direct suggestion to the original poster. If you think that you are going to go to TTR and have anything goes, or that is specifically what you are looking for, it isn't the best option. If you are however looking for a party, and trying to be risky in hopes for the thrill of potentially getting caught, then knock yourself out. If my more vanilla friends ask me where to go on vacation for a little risquè excitement. I send them to TTR. They won't see anything that will blow their minds, and cause a heart attack. If some of my hardcore full swap swinger friends ask, TTR is going to be rather bland to them so I suggest a LS cruise or another resort where they are safe to do as they would like without fear of being ejected from the resort. You can wear tiny underwear and mesh top walking down the street in L.A. , women can legally walk around NYC topless. If you want to feel taboo, go to TTR. If you live taboo, go somewhere else. Just my 2 cents, not trying to sway anyone. Just do your research better than we did is all we are saying.
You can get away with a lot!!! I wouldn't say you can go crazy and have SEX but I have seen some kissing and heavy making out at the sexy pool. You will be fine.. Have fun and enjoy the best party in Cancun. LOL
