So my wife and I aren't swingers but enjoy the adult fun that tends to float around this lifestyle choice. Every time we are in Vegas it's always the European pools (topless) and that's all fine but I'm a little nervous that this place may be more than we were shooting for. The trip is booked and no refunds to speak of but will a fun couple who isn't into swapping still be able to have fun or will it be pushy? Answer honestly please... I'd rather have to book another hotel and loose a little money than stay a week where we have to say no the whole time. - Ryan
People aren't pushy at all. Based on your post, it sounds like you'll fit right in. Yes, a lot (most?) of the ladies are topless, but no pressure there either. As far as being pushed into swinging, certainly no pushing goes on. And the rule that "no means no" is just about always respected. Relax, read the forum for a better idea of what to expect, and you'll have a great time. It's really a big spring break for grownups!
That's exactly what I say...it's like a frat party for adults. Go up to people and say hi. There are more people like y'all then you think...read posts and reply to people when u have a comment. Go to the month that y'all are going to and start to meet people on the board. You will live it. And don't worry.
Will not be a concern at all. Have been there many times and have never ever felt pressure for anything more than to enjoy drinks and laughs!! Enjoy the fun and adult atmosphere and have no worries about pressure to do anything more than what you want.
well you guys (and gals) are making me feel good about it and it's sounding exactly like what we are wanting. thanks for such a quick response and I'll look into who else is going in October. Would be kind of cool to know a few ppl before we show up.
You've got the wrong impression as to what goes on at Temptation. I honestly think there are just as many swingers in my local Wisconsin bar as I've found at TTR. You will have a great time - no worries.
You will be fine. As for what some where it can be as much as a 1 piece (not just the bottoms) to as little as just a string thong. Pushy, no. Don't get me wrong there are those there that are in the lifestyle they usually keep to theirselves or in their groups and if you want to join them just join then and see what happens if you don't then join them and have a few drinks and laughs. It's a very fun place where we meet many different types of people. We call it our summer home, just wish we could spend more time there.
You'll have a great time. No worries, not everyone is a swinger and you won't even notice the people who are, unless they tell you. Simply tell them your not into it if approached. You'll have the most fun you will ever have on a trip.
