Newbee's help please! (Lots of questions)

I wonder if anyone can help me out. (It is going to be a long post with a lot of questions.) I have been trying to get my wife to this type of a resort for years. We are staying at the Moon Palace for a week and I convinced her to try 3 nights at Temptations. I can't wait to get there, she on the other hand is a bit apprehensive. She is already telling me that she will likely not go topless. (But she just bought her first two piece bathing suit so I guess she is thinking about it.) I am 58, she is 62 but everyone thinks she is a lot younger than me. Most guess early 50's. She is only 115 pounds but she is very self conscious about her body. She seems to think that the place will be full of only 20 and 30 year olds with perfect bodies. Is she right?
Theme nights, Thursday Friday and Saturday. Is there any way to know for sure before we leave exactly what they will be? It seems like by what I read they may not be what is posted. I think Thursday is lingerie, Friday is white, and Saturday is red. What do the guys wear? She is much more likely to participate if I have to do something too. She really does not like a lot of attention. Why do I see pictures in many albums of the "Sexy School Girl" look? Is it one of the theme nights?
Have you ever seen some of the women wearing body paint instead of a top, or even a costume for the theme night? I am an artist at heart and would love to do this on her. If I were to tell her ahead of time I know she would shoot it down. If we get there and others are doing it she might try it too. Any chance they have any kind of sand sculpture contests? I love doing sand sculptures. The only problem is I only sculpt women. Most are very lifelike. Up until two years ago she was O K with it. I always have girls waiting for me to sculpt them once I do the first one. I think she decided that I was paying too much attention to all the other girls and not enough to her. She is probably right, but now she doesn't want me doing it any more when she is with me. If there were some sort of contest it would be a great excuse for me to do some.
Has anyone tried the sensual couples massage? Can you tell me anything I should know about that.

 

Dude, I would love to help but you are bit all over the place.
1. The age group is young to old, but most are 30 and above.
2. Topless- if she is not comfortable then don't push, many women at temptations are but she won't be out of place. But you will have to control yourself seeing lots of topless women, make sure she is ok with that.
3. Temptation gets all kinds of people and accepts all.
4. Theme nights are resort led, and CCC led, they will be posted on here.
5. Guys wear- there is argument had here depending on who answers. For dinner a button down shirt and cotton linen pants works, others do shorts, I don't.
6. I don't what to say about your sand sculptures, if you want to spend your time at adult spring break doing sand art go for it.

 

Temptations is not the place to be if there are any jealousy issues. It is fun, wild, and a bit (ok a lot ) sexually charged atmosphere. No one there will pressure you guys in any way but I agree with TimBeck if you have a wandering eye and she is jealous or insecure about it you may want to rethink.
That said theme night are both TTR led and that is by far the most participated in and CCC led. Those are the fun themes that allow you to build relationships with folks here on CCC. We just got back and there was body painting being worn for a couple of nights by some, not many. The sensual massage is a must do. Topless or not is her choice not yours and either way people will still be friendly to you. There is no pressure other than what you guys put on yourselves. Our first time it took two days for Kay to lose her top and now it is all I can do to get her to keep it on during the transfer to the hotel.
Good luck to y'all and whatever you two decide to do decide together.

 

Age Range.... 21 and up!! You both fit in!!

Theme Nights... Theme Nights in Red are TTR nights...White/Blue are CCC theme nights. Need to know what time of the year your going so you can follow what theme nights that group/Month are having. There has been talk about Body painting and some groups are figuring out how to get an artist or two down to do it for a theme night or 2. Ex: Sports Nights...The girls having there favorite team's jersey painted on!! :aktion033::aktion033::aktion033::aktion033:

Sand Art.... Haven't seen at TTR. I guess because the beach to public. :huh::huh: You can maybe check on a Sand Art website to see if hotels down the street are promoting an event. Their beaches are own by the hotel.

Topless.... By choice!! Everyone Parties..Top or No top!! :aktion033::aktion033:

Massages...Never had one!

Hope this and everyone elses helps U!! :cheerleaders:

 

your overthinking it , just go and have fum

 

I think you are right. If we can't have a good time there, then there is no hope fir us. We will have fun.
Thanks

 

Hi! We had our 1st visit to Temptation this past April. We didn't know about the theme nights beforehand. Not everyone dresses up for the themes. Sure, the more, the merrier, but there were plenty of people just wearing regular clothes + it was perfectly fine. (We are heading back next month + we'll be better prepared)

About the topless thing: going topless in public is something personal for everyone. I didn't dare do it last time, and I'm on the fence for my next visit. If she doesn't deel like doing it, there's no pressure, shame, etc. Not all the women go topless so she should feel comfortable either way.

We haven't tried any of the massages but there are good reviews on this forum. Some are fairly recent.

Have a great trip!

PS Be sure to sign up for a Boobs Cruise. Has to be booked through this forum. There is also a "Booze Cruise" you can book at the resort. It's also fun, but not the same thing as the Boobs Cruise.

 

Thanks for all the great info. we will be there Jan 22 through 25th. I don't know how to post to the calendar.

 

Thanks to all who answered. I'm sure it will be the best vacation we have ever had.