My wife and I spent our honeymoon at The Excellence and found it nice there were a few douche bag 18 year olds would walk up and get drunk and be really annoying. We are looking for a place to go for our first anniversary where we can be around adults and relax and have fun and meet fun people. We are not that into the nudity and wont participate in it but not that bothered/concerened by it. Also not into swinging, Is Temptation the place for us or should we look elsewhere?
There's never any pressure to be topless (full nudity is not allowed except during the games), and there aren't actually that many swingers at TTR, despite the impression these boards give. Besides which, I don't know of many swingers who would pressure anyone into anything if they weren't in the lifestyle already.
Totally agree with Mike here. Topless is optional, bottomless is not, though you will see some pretty crazy swimsuit bottoms. You will also be more than comfortable wearing a suit that you would wear around the whole family, the beauty of this place is that no one cares! There are some swingers at TTR, but if it isn't your thing, it is a none issue.
Curtis, I had the same issue last June on our (my wife and I) first trip to TTR. I had been twice before. Long story short, she did not want to go. Now she can't wait to go back. 25 days and counting!!! Let me know if you want the long story or if I can help in any way.
Darcy and I both had reservations for years about going. We finally went back in '07 and had a blast. Now we can't wait for our return trips. The key is to just relax. Everyone there is there to have fun, period. No one has ever imposed on anyone else about anything that we have seen. And, as you said, Temptation has a much more mature client base. Very few, if any, immature idiots.
Some of the most common things people say when they come back 1; I never knew I would have the courage to do that 2; Had the time of our lives 3; When do we go back 4; Where did Chino get his strap on
Thanks for the all the comments and advice! iiimorenos, what was the long story? I think our main issue is lack of expirence in mexico. Thanks for everything!