Hey all, my wife and I are considering a southern vacation and really have no clue where to start or what to expect. We're completely new to all of this so bare with me and my stupid questions. We're thinking Temptation or Desire, neither of us have done the tropical vacation/resort vacation thing before so it's all new to us. We're thinking we would like to do an adult only resort where we can spend a few kidless days in a sexy, relaxing environment. Wife says she doesn't know if she'll be comfortable going topless/nude but from what I've read the atmosphere helps bring most out of the shell. We're not big "party" people, not big club goers, more of relaxed sit around and have a few drinks kind of people. Though I'm sure we would probably check things out just for curiosity sake. . If nothing else making new friends and being around the atmosphere should make for a fun sexy trip, even if we stay to ourselves. Reading about the differences in the resorts, seems single guys at Temptation could be a bit of a headache, and while I know you can deal with some even with couples, how much of an issue would that be? I just don't want my wife to have a bad experience. Not being club/bar goers, will we still enjoy the atmosphere and get a good trip out of it? Also money is a factor, we don't have a set budget but always looking to save some money, is a 3 night trip enough to really get away? How many nights would you say is a bare minimum for a resort stay? Thanks!