Like to see Temptations a little more open in the swingers side. It's there but al a little under cover.. what do you think?
We're swingers but don't agree to be honest. There's enough swingers resorts around the world so there's no need to change TTR. We've made so many non swinging friends that we'd hate to lose people like that from the resort just so we can swing when we have plenty of oppurtunity to swing back home. Some only swing on holidays because they are in the closet when they are at home. They need to enjoy the lifestyle all year round not just the few days they spend on vacation. If your going on vacation just to swing then people should go to a swingers resort.
Amen my brother... If you decide to engage in the lifestyle, it's your business and in my opinion meant to be kept discreet. I'm glad TTR doesn't have open play rooms and in your face swinging. It would change the enire dynamic of the resort and stop some very fun couples from coming to the resort. In my observation, most people come to TTR for the freedom to be someone they aren't at home. That takes many forms from simple flirting and drinking to swinging. This place has something for everyone, instead of catering to a single mindset.
Well, a few thoughts...(not meant to be at all critical) TTR is the ultimate place to party, :clappyinghappy: but it isn't really a swingers resort. Yes, there are swingers there, we bumped into a few, but overall the mentality and vibe don't compare with Desire or Hedonism. Lots of sizzle, little steak. At the aforementioned places people are more apt to kid, tease and flirt about it--it's somewhat expected. While those things happen at TTR, folks seemed a bit more reserved about being perceived as a swinger, hitting on a 'straight' couple (for lack of a better term), or maybe be viewed as pushy if they indeed are. From what we saw, much of the swinger rhetoric is simply hype and people dreaming about 'what if' scenarios that never materialize due to shyness and/or inexperience. And honestly that makes perfect sense. Alchohol may or may not help the situation. lol. Also, without a hot tub or quieter place to chill in the evenings it's tough to get anything going on in that regard. Meeting another couple and yelling back and forth over music and a crazy crowd trying to see if there is chemistry is no way to work a sexy evening. But again, that is the essence of evenings at TTR--and they are wild, crazy and fabulous. We went expecting pretty much exactly what we experienced and had the time of our lives. :ernaehrung015: For real, sexy fun head to Cabo Desire takeovers...best of the best!
we are also swingers.... and we agree that TTR is great the way it is.... we have been into the lifestyle for 17 years and we love playing.... but we play all year long.... don't mind playing while we are at TTR but if it don't happen thats ok..... see you all there.... only 5 more sleeps...
