Hello all. My beautiful lady has been planning her sexy theme night outfits and they are sexy. My question is what do most of the guys wear for the later part of the evening. I am fun loving and willing to go with the flow. What do you experienced tempters wear?
I participate in most theme nights...there are a couple where I might just do a button down and shorts, but mostly I participate. I wear stuff I wouldn’t wear anywhere else in the world that’s for sure! For lingerie night I usually just wear some short boxer briefs and maybe a black t-shirt...but I’ve seen guys go full on Chippendales as well. Otherwise, you can pretty much get stuff for any theme night and participate to your heart’s content. I would do whatever you feel comfortable (actually - uncomfortable! ) with - but this is the one time you can just let it all hang out! (Almost).
Same here. I participate in all the nights with her and go all in. The most conservative night for me(as in just shorts and shirt) is the white night. Its more fun to participate with your lady if you ask me.
When we were there in August for the soft opening (our first time) we found cancucare and read all the threads. We went all out including my husband shopping for theme nights and well let's just say the 9 nights we were there maybe 2 to 5 guys even participated and maybe 40 to 50 % of women did with the exception of white night and lingire night. Hoping this trip in June will be different.
We were newbies in Feb and I was one who did go with boxers and bow tie for lingerie night on my lady's request...really out of my normal self, but hey, like they say..."nobody knows me and "I "surely don't give a shit"! So go ahead and let it all hang out! It's fun and you'll make memories to take home and reminisce about these nights while waiting for your next visit. Trust me! In fact, we looked for the theme night threads and got stuff for all of them. Like they say, better to have and not need then to need and not have.
It's fun to go as a couple! I always participate too, and usually I'll have some boxers or something of that sort that Stephie likes. I've got some neon ones for glow night, black mesh for something else, but my favorite were for animal night. For that she found me a pair with Animal (the band drummer) from the Muppets!
We are planning on dressing for 3 out of the 5 nights. We are still struggling what to wear for SuperHero night but I think Heaven & Hell night and lingerie night we got it figured out. Heaven and Hell night she will wear a sexy red dress and I will wear either all black or white dress clothes. lingerie night we got her something nice off of Yandy.com and me I have a small wrestling singlet that I thought would be fun and funny to wear. Just remember, everyone is just there to have a great time and no one cares what you wear. In all the times we have been there I have never seen people be disrespectful or make fun of someone. It typically works out to the more you dress up the more cheers you get. People are awesome here and that's why we go back.
Check out my pics on here for some ideas. I agree with bringing things you are comfortable wearing out at night but always bring stuff that will push your limits. avballguy under the Media tab