Little back story first. The hubby and I have been to TTR3 times and HEDO once. The openness and sexual charged atmosphere is a blast and we’ve enjoyed ourselves a bit more each time. By enjoyed I mean we’ve pushed our boundaries and comfort zones. We have always enjoyed PDA and have put on more than a few balcany shows. Each time we’ve gone I’ve gotten more comfortable fooling around with other women, little kissing, some under the bottoms of the bathing suit frivolity. My husband has never forced or coerced actually never even encouraged. He would just go to the bar and come back with drinks and I’d be making out with a girl I’ve found attractive and likeminded. So in March we’ll be there and though I don’t know about swinging but we’re sure interested in same room carrying on. So so my question is simple; we’tr Not going to walk up to people and say hey let’s go have a romp. But tell us about subtle hints or things we can be on the look out for. We don’t want to appear needy but want to enjoy ourselves and other fine people as well. Thank You
Don't over think it. It just happens and you will know it. Kind of like what a supreme court justice said about pornography: I may not know how to define it, but I know it when I see it. Just keep up the flirting and the fooling around and let whatever happens, happen.
honestly, it will NOT just happen. If you find a couple you find attractive the only way to make it happen is to 1) make the first move or 2) hope they make the first move. I recommend #1 but if you choose #2 you will have to send them not to subtle indications. remember, the swingers you are interested in are no different than you. they want someone they are attracted to to talk and flirt with them. they are just as prone to a fear of rejection as you. in addition, they are not going to have any idea that you guys are interested in testing the waters if you don't clearly send them the message.
Respect and honesty goes a long way each have their own limit and the limit of the group is always the lowest limit of the individual. If you meet someone who don't get that of is trying to push you over your comfort maybe it should stop at doing shots and partying hahahah The last thing a couple should do is damage what they have, When everything is good you know when it is time to grow and perhaps consider the next step. Someone once told us at Temptation "if you only hang with people exactly like you it is impossible to grow" Can't wait to meet you all and have a lot of fun.
