So I have been lurking here for the last 4 trips to Cancun, and have yet to make it to TTR. I am thinking that this winter I have the golden ticket. We are in our 40's, and don't swing, but think this will be the place to have fun and let our hair down. So my real question is, will be be uncomfortable, or make others uncomfortable if we end up being the more conservative couple? I am still thinking that a Boobs Cruise is a must, and I can see us totally mixing it up with everyone just fine, but I am afraid we might seem like the voyeurs, although thats not our intention. Its just our first time and at this point in our lives we are finally letting our hair down a bit. BTW, married 20 years and totally into each other with really no hang ups with each other, and love to meet new people. Thoughts? Encouragement ?
We too are happily married (28 years), in our late 40's, don't swing but like to meet fun people and enjoy ourselves. We have been to TTR Cancun twice and are looking forward to trip # 3 this Dec. TTR is the place to have adult fun and let your hair down. Steve's Boobs Cruise was a great deal of fun, even tho I got a bit sea sick. There is never any pressure to partake in anything you are not comfortable with. The people are great, the games are funny as hell and the party keeps going. From what you have written about yourselves, I think you'll have a great time at TTR. Now just book it and give it a try. Cheers.
Hi, my thoughts are.... Go! Encouragement.....Go! We are a married couple of 14 years, happy and monogamous for 19 years. Who knows what the future holds but it will be fun and we will leap together, if we choose to do so. This place is so much fun, honest and accepting. I think everyone is welcome and it is very inclusive. The most common expression is "no one knows you and no one gives a sh..t." By the end of your trip you will make new friends and laugh a lot. Hopefully you will be brave and try something you never tried before. The limitations you have are your own. My wife went topless at the pool for the first time and enjoyed the freedom. Now she years to take it off at regular resorts. This pace is far more fun than regular. There may be peope at the resort who swing and they will be doing the serious play in private just like every other adult, swinger or not. Everyone, whatever their sexual preference, will be out having fun as one big group, some ladies will be topless, poolside games and music carry you through the day. You might see some PDA but nothing too serious is permitted in public. You will see sexy people feeling sexy, having fun, being silly, joyful and welcoming. For some they take it further and if someone likes to ask you about adult play then answer as you feel in the moment. it's simple though- no thank you means no. Just discuss any new boundaries in advance first as a couple. Our first trip was in March and we leave again in 5 more sleeps. Temptatios is so much more fun than typical resorts. We participated at Lingerie night and everyone was supportive, complimentary and respectful. Some actually breathed a sigh of relief that others had dared to participate as well. Ha ha ! I could go on but....try it! You'll like it! Keep asking questions and both of you should be reading the site forums to get comfortable. I hope you go and discover the fun holiday you have been seeking.
go. there was every personality, nationality, size, color, etc! 100'S of beautiful people in one pool!! It was our 1st time and after all of our own discussions are done.... it was EPIC!!!!!!!!! can't imagine having that much fun again!! but imagine we might. :ernaehrung015:
Great thread...this will be our first adult vacation in 21 yrs (Sept 29-Oct 6)....So, we are really excited about it. We don't swing either, but wanted to go somewhere fun and exciting and to meet people. We have been reading many of the threads on this site to try and get familiar with what happens like theme nights, Boobs Cruise etc. The pics we saw while looking through the site look amazing and the best thing is how everyone looks like they are having a great time. We would both love to go on the Boob's cruise, but worry about sea sickness...any thoughts? Susannah
Skip the sea sickness pills and go with a patch. Prevent Motion Sickness - Transderm ScÅp® - Clinically Proven Motion Sickness Patches I used it for 4 days aboard a sailing tallship in the Pacific Northwest last year and drank my share of booze while aboard. No nausea or hangovers. Great stuff!
Whats this No hangovers... though I don't have an issue with motion sickness will it take care of hangovers??? that would be awsome LOL
Hi, I just updated the link in my original email as I copied it wrong. Yes... No hangover. Comes with warnings though for anyone wanting to get pregnant within a certain period of time etc. Use as directed and all should be good. MWhen I took the patch off and continued my holidays a few days later I had an evening of drinking and was really hung over the next day, as is normal, but then realized I had consumed more on the boat with no hang over. Hope it works for you on land or on the water. Cheers!
Thanks BNK..will keep this in mind. We have been on cruise ships before and had no problems...just wondering if the small boat would be different.
