Husband and I have never been to NOLA and we have some time off coming this December. We have heard the city is a fun, crazy place, but exactly where should we stay and what should we do? A little background, we have been happily married for 20+ years. We are not swingers but we love hanging out at places where swingers can be found (e.g. Temptation, Desire and our local swingers' club) We enjoy a little bit of exhibitionism and voyuerism, and lots of PDA. I love the party at the old PattyO's and Bash is good, too. So that's what I'm looking for in New Orleans: that kind of fun, flirty, wild but mature vibe... I've heard the French Quarter is great but I'd appreciate specific suggestions. Also, should we rent a car or is it good enough to just walk around/take the bus etc?