I was at the resort in December 2011 for the first time. Most men had boxer shorts on. Some had smoking jackets (Hugh heffner style), or silk PJ bottoms. The more risque guys had thongs on, but that was not the norm, and that's a good thing, as there are very few men that can carry off a thong! I had a sort of bustier/teddy thing on with 6" satin heels, brazilian cut panties, garter and stockings. I felt quite conservative beside some of the other ladies! When I return to TTR this April, I will wear a full-length black lace bodystocking with a g-string underneath. Wear what you feel comfortable in. But you will want to wear something sexy even if you like to be covered up. For example, wear silk pajamas worn open with a lacy bra underneath, not the flannel pajamas you schlepp around the house in on Sunday mornings! There was a thread not too long ago discussing what people wear at lingerie night. Do a search for "lingerie night" here and you should be able to pull it up.
I had a sort of bustier/teddy thing on with 6" satin heels, brazilian cut panties, garter and stockings. OMG!!! Niceeeeee, sorry I missed it