Ok...here is a question presented by a guy on his first trip to TTR. As this is the first time I have been to a resort thats topless and etc. I'd like to find out what behavior is most appreciated and acceptable by the ladies. I know that I am going to find some very attractive ladies and appreciating them to the fullest and maybe finding myself staring longer than I should be. Only a gentle nudge from the wife may bring me back to reality. So.....what makes you feel appreciated the most? Is a good stare and smile appreciated or is it better to try the " I dont see it" approach? Help !!!!!!
First I don't think it's a big deal to be topless, as most of us don't especially the ladies that are topless. If you look around normally then you should be fine. We have our tops off and know we'll be looked at but not excessively drooled over. After a few days you'll get used to it and it wont be a big deal anyway.... Just dont be creepy about it. lol :flash:
Always take a pair of mirrored sunglasses. What? They have a good UV rating! Just kidding be polite and I find that usually works out well.
I had the same worries last year on my first trip... I was going solo as a single guy and was afraid that without a wingman to nudge me back to reality, I'd be caught staring at all the beautiful breasts... After the first 20 minutes of wiping the spittle off of my chin, seeing all the beautiful women seemed pretty normal and was able to get my mind out of the gutter and just have fun... Well, hopefully that's what happened... After a few dozen to many drinks I may have stared a little, but hopefully not overly creepy like.
our first trip I honestly didn't notice or think it was a big deal. Within 5 minutes of us arriving we ran into someone whom we are still friends with who was topless, didn't think anything of it.... the next morning she started out in a totally sheer top, and for what ever reason, I couldn't keep my eyes off of that, that was more shocking to me than not wearing anything at all :blueshock:
My huband calls it "boob numb"...you just get used to it. When I put a top on for the evening he would say..."wait a minute, there's something different..."
I agree with everyone above, after the initial shock of seeing topless women it just becomes the norm. Although, you may find yourself staring intently at the shall we say more inventive bikinis. That sling shot thing that looks a little painful always gets me. Mirrored sunglasses definitely help out. And, as long as there are no attempts to grab things that are not yours (unless granted), you will be fine. Brandie
