So, the wife and i are going on a much needed vacation from april28-may4. This will be our first vaca for just the two of us in over 4 yrs as weve added two new additions to our family. What i need help with is convincing the MRS. that no one gives a crap that shes put on a few pounds since the babies came along. We've been to TTR in the past and had a great time, hoping to do the same this year but an uptight and uncomfortable wife could be a problem.
You know the score - "Nobody knows you" etc etc, and it's true! And baby weight, and stretch marks and all that, is a badge of honour! You two look like a really cute couple, with you by her side, she'll have a great time. There's nothing better for a woman's confidence than her man cheering her on! :daisy:
Nobody minds a curvy woman! In fact, I noticed most women were curvy, not stick-thin. My advice - get yourself (and her) on a pre-vacation workout program - walking if nothing else - and just go. The exercise program is really just to help her feel better about herself, maybe lose a pound or two, and if you do it together, foster some couple time. Worst case scenario - she loses no weight and hides in a beach cover-up. Best case - she loses no weight & wanders around TTR topless with a giant grin all week. So, either way, you're at TTR! If it really, really helps, the week we were there, maybe 5% of the women were "perfect". The other 95% of us felt a little jealous & had a great time anyway!
Don't worry nobody is there to judge your wife !! I'm almost 200 pounds but i don't look like that it's just I have big bones and muscle!!! I ride snowmobile all winter so that's normal !! The most important thing is to feel good in your skin!!! My knee are bigger than my boyfriend LOL! I can eat salad and protein no fat for week make exercise and I will take few pound!! Can't wait 1 weeks!! but I don't give a f**k of what people think about me! I love eating and if someone isn't happy with that he can go fuck himself Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
As everyone else has said, your good lady should not worry at all. One of the great things about TTR is that the approach is live and let live. There are all shapes and sizes there. Just have confidence in who you are and enjoy the fun times. After the first day around the sexy pool you will feel your inhibitions melt away.
Browse through peoples public photo albums to see the real people. Dont look at TTR sites, their all models.
Thanks for the support everyone! Your comments coupled with my constant flow of compliments are starting to make progress! Thanks again peoples! Tim and Anna
You're welcome and also I have stretch mark on my belly !! I take over 40 pounds the last year !!! My breast was 34b I'm 34D now LOL!!! But for example is any age resort (oasis palm, cancun etc) it's really young my bf have 35 and he was the oldest there !!! So this year I chose Temptation as hotel because NO kids!!! Like we was near the swim bar and a kids jump on the water my drink was waste!!! They don't have respect ( general ) so nobody judge you was happening in other hotel, young lady and their douchbag judge everyone!! Adult resort !!4 ever Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
I got sick in Oct last year and ended up gaining 30 lbs. I'm still not 100% and have asthma attacks every time I try to work out but i've lost about 15 of that weight. Ideally, I'd like to lose 25 lbs before our next trip which is in a month, but I know it's highly unlikely. I had to buy all new outfits for this trip since i'm bigger than normal. At first I was really upset but I'm doing what I can and everything else is out of my control so I've changed my attitude and will enjoy my vacation just the same! I'll still be rocking my thong bathing suits and skimpy dresses because there's all shapes and sizes there and I don't care what any of the "perfect" people think!
