How many of you have had a bad experience with a male while at Temptation we been 3 times to TTR and two outof of thethe three had a bad experience.
good question... none that i could think of (14 trips) BUT i text jamie to ask her. after her thinking about it for 1/2 hour she text none also. but she did say in a second text.. " im sure there might have been some, but none that where worth a second thought about 2 seconds after it happened " NOW on the other hand, we went to Cabo (not TTR cabo) and she didnt feel comfortable walking to the bathroom and guys would even walk up to our table and ask the girls to dance even though both women were clearly wearing wedding rings and with their husbands. and they didnt take no for an answer!! several times i had to step in and politely explain no means no. (she likes to handle it herself, until its time for me to handle it :icon_smile: ) frank
We've never had a problem with single males. Honestly the only rude males (only 2) we met were married. Well at least they were then, hard to know now LOL. Looking forward to our 7th or 8th trip.
I have never been there, this will be the first trip..... In my analysis, I've concluded that some males believe that its a pre-paid get laid festival, they actually book the trip day dreaming of getting laid for free by countless women just like that...why do I conclude this, because I've read reviews where the single guys negative review is that there were no hot single women. After a few drinks idiots will show their faces... Here is how I explained it to my wife....if you get drunk, dance around naked become fresh with people around you then do not be shocked if some drunk guy thinks it's fair game. You can minimize your chances by how you behave and with who you joke around with. Lastly, what is the defenition of "problem"? Some guy drunk guy telling you you are good looking, using neutral words to hit on you, that happens everywhere and women need to deal with it if the dude is passive....(if the bastard was a model super good looking guy women would not complain but that a diff topic) If the guy is out of line with his comments or gets physical, then he must be stopped and that's when the resort needs to be involved, yes, a bf or husband can step in but if you are going to be there all week, I would not get physical. Finally, please remember that if you are playing the "grap my ass" game with a specific group of ppl, the drunk guy at the next table may think the game is open to the public.... I go knowing that I may arrive at an off week and not see couples or a mixed crowd and instead encounter a bunch of horny men, in which case I am sure they will congregate together, drink together and huddle in the pool together hence if they are annoying it's not too diff to avoid them. I am going with my wife and will treat it like any other resort and every resort can be boring as hell after a few days hence why each resort offers activities of all sorts.....if the pool is having an off week we have a laundry list of things we want to do while in Mexico.
I am probably more up tight than most people that go to Temptations, so I guess you can take my incidents with a grain of salt. I was kind of disappointed with the quantity of single guys at the resort when we visited a couple of weeks ago (my only real hang up in an otherwise great time). I was having a discussion at the upper pool bar with a couple and watched a single guy (who was with a group of rather obnoxious single guys) swim up, climb out of the pool and give my topless wife a hug. I ignored it and went back to my conversation, only to see him do it again which really pissed me off because it was obvious he was getting his jollies off on rubbing her breasts on his chest. Still kept my mouth shut though. My second problem was with a guy at the bar during the pool party that was talking to my wife from behind her leaning over her back with his hands on her back (and slowly moving down). This was the same day as the previous incident so I pretty much had it at this point, lol. I walked up to him, removed his hands from her and asked him to keep his hands off of her. He barely spoke english but was obviously trying to apologize. Every single guy fled the area, which I later thought was kind of funny. On our last night we went to Paty O's, and after standing at the bar (together mind you) for less an 5 seconds some guy comes charging in to pick up my wife. I kept my mouth shut. She ignored him, and we went about our merry way. My wife is hot, and I know her getting hit on is going to happen. My line gets crossed when people start touching her. My advice to single guys is to at least step back for a moment and attempt to evaluate whether or not a woman is with someone else before charging in for the pick up (and keep your hands to yourself especially when someone is in a semi-vulnerable state like being topless at a pool!).
I agree.. you can find troubled males, females, married or single where ever you go.. Not just TTR Our experience is that we have never had any problems what so ever with single guys..at Temptations
I think you guys have the right attitude for Temptations and I believe you will have the time of your lives. Great point of view BTW. Thanks
