Ok, I tried searching for the answer to this to save myself the embarassment of asking....but am still not sure what goes on at a room party. I am sure it depends on how things progress. But generally, is the initial concept just to hang out in someones room to have drinks and talk in a smaller, more private setting? Or does it most usually end in couple/group sex? Both?? Just wondering what to expect in case the opportunity presents itself...LOL. And if you have been to one, I'd love to hear some stories.
It always ends up in an orgy. If you are lucky to get invited which is really difficult. You have to meet the right people who are really connected to the resort. They will give you a golden ticket which allows you to go through a special part of the resort. You are then taken to a hidden room that has indoor Jacuzzis and sex swings and hot…hot people and a gimp wearing a leather suit and a ball gag. Then, they bring in the donkey…………
I think that depends on the group of people really...who knows how it will turn out, it can be just sitting around joking around, having drinks or i guess much more if everyone there is into that...IMO, a room party is more of a spontaneous thing if you meet the right ppl and click, not something you set up weeks ahead, as it usually isnt going to pan out the way you hope once you get to the resort and start drinking and doing activities. Also a room party can be just 3 or 4 people My advice is to just go with the flow, meet people and see what happens...or have your own room party and invite ppl back after Paty-os'.
I think Lady M of FloridaFun put it best. Have seen room parties that wer more joking around than anything else with 14-16 people in the room. Seen parties where there were less than that and as thing got serious those that weren't up to it that night excused themselves. So if you get invited go check it out. If after you get there it's not your cup of tea, you can always bow out and try again with someone else. If someone there makes a stink about it, well it would go to show that you really didn't want to spend time with them anyway since they don't know how to act. Jamie
usually a room party is a small group of people getting together in soemones room for sex. It could be soft swap or full swap or it could be no swap just sex in front of others. It all depends on the group. We go to Desire REsort and Spa and see people engaged in sexual activity around the hottub and sex room off the disco. Desire is more for the swinger / nudist crowd. We have had many fun nights around the hot tub and in the private room.
I think as your hanging with those friends prior to the "room party" you'll have a pretty good idea on what MIGHT go on. If the atmosphere is sexually charged make sure, in advance to going to the party, that both you and your partner (communication) are on the same page. I've seen on many occassion where one partner comes to the party with a greater anticipation of participating than the other. Room parties are usually a blast! Go, have fun and if turns out not right for you just simply excuse yourself. I've always found 99.9% of guests to be respectful and non judgemental. That's the BEAUTY of this resort.
