I am looking to book a vacation for my wife and I towards the end of the year, with US/Mexico travel seemingly becoming easier and we have always had great experiences on Mexico trips. My question is if this resort a good opportunity for a couple to connect or is the social element going to be the main attraction? We are by no means introverted but I do want us to be the focus. We are always up for a good time but can this be romantic for just us as well? The topless optional seems liberating with a sense of freedom but will we be uncomfortable if not partaking (may or may not)? Will we have our guard up that conversation have other motives?
TTR is what you make of it and if you want to use it for reconnection that is certainly something you should feel free to do. However, the most active parts of the resort are the sexy pool during the day and Bash (nightclub) at night. Both of those areas can be crowded and noisy, especially when the resort is more crowded overall. While you can "stick to yourselves" as much as you want, I am not sure that I would call the environment at those two areas as being the best places for quiet, romantic reconnection time. On the other hand, both the quiet pool and the beach are less crowded and more likely to lead to the kind of environment you are looking for. Also, if you are on referral or staying in the tower, you have free access to the rooftop bar/hot tubs - That would be the perfect spot for you (IMHO). If you are not on referral or staying in the tower you can pay $20 per person per day to access the rooftop. As far as topless goes, there is never any pressure to partake - if you elect not to, you shouldn't feel any pressure. As far as having to have your guard up - if you are approached, simply say no thanks, and move on. Ninety-eight percent or more will not bother you again. However, there are always some jerks so you may have to be a bit firmer with a very tiny minority. I love TTR and always recommend it. None the less, unless the topless optional part is important to you, I think you might find a more traditional resort might allow you more quiet reconnection time then TTR. But as I said, TTR is what you decide to make of it. I hope that helps.
My wife are going down for that reason. I think just spending time together without the kids will help.
This is helpful! After I posted, I had a moment of clarity that this is exactly the point of this place and why it was even an option in the first place. The other side of me, after reading a number of post, make me feel like we might be fish out of water. (We are definitely not the most “vanilla” couple you’ve ever met either). Fun…yes! Adventure… love it! Outgoing and social, especially with a drink. Too much pressure or not getting the opportunity to focus on what really matters is what would worry me.
IOHO.... TTR is about meeting new people, socialising and re-connecting with old friends. If you wish to stay at just the quiet pool or the beach, you tend to miss the party, that's really what TTR is about. You will know your relationship much better than anyone else but if you just want a romantic break than I think there's better resorts, if you want a super lively party, take advantage of the water sports, meet loads of people ( who'll will probably become friends for life) and have a great time then TTR is the place to be. I think the Boob Cruise on your first visit, would probably be a bridge too far !!!!
It all depends on the reasons why you feel the need to reconnect. If it’s to spend a good time (a really good time) with your partner, having the possibility to party hard and to relax in the same environment, TTR might be for you. If you’re seeking a place to reconnect because your couple is not in a good place at the moment, then TTR isn’t your place. That could be catastrophic honestly. No matter what, if it’s your first time going there, talk about it extensively with your partner before booking to make sure that it’s what both of you are looking for and that you both have the same expectations about the trip. TTR is a great place to let things go, just not in every situations Cheers!
Reconnect is exactly the outcome of our first trip! I would recommend it, you can find anything you are looking for while you’re there, or not. For us, the sexy atmosphere rejuvenated the fire for us. Yes you can and will likely party your ass off, but you can take it’s slow as you want as well.
We first went to TTR because we wanted a chance to just get away with just the two of us and to let loose. We had a lot of great conversations before going about what we would and would not do, what we would wear, etc. It was a lot of fun and really helped build up the anticipation and get to know things about each other that we would not have discussed otherwise (and no, I won't wear the Borat). Dress up for the theme nights, it is a lot of fun to be out in things you would possibly never wear otherwise .When we got there we had plenty of time for just the two of us, but also lots of chances to just let loose. We had a great time and came back stronger for it. Became members and heading back for our second visit next month.
I do think TTR can be a great place to reconnect. It works for our relationship as a great way to reconnect, but we have also seen the opposite happen. It can be difficult if you aren't both on the same page or if jealousy is an issue. It really depends on your relationship and what you're looking for.
