First timers, wife getting nervous, any other newbies first week in January

I wanted to go somewhere without

 

Don't worry.. TTR has two sides.. there is a quiet pool side and a crazy sexy pool side..
you will find what works for the both of you.. just relax and have fun..

 

She might surprise you..........bet she has fun.

 

I think of TTR as the place I go when I want to feel like I am at the peak of a good bender on a long weekend. Everything looks, feels and is awesome. You have the carribean sea, great weather and fun people.

Relax and have fun. Whatever you want to do, if it's hang out on a quiet beach at night or party like a rock star that's what you will get.

 

There is nothing to be nervous about...You both can do as much or as little as you want! You can mix it up at the quiet pool and the sexy pool...Hope you guys have as much fun as we do when we go there...

 

I would recommend sitting on the beach day 1. It is an easy walk up to the sexy pool where you both can peak in on the activities and feel out your wife's reaction to all the fun.

If it makes her uncomfortable then you can go to the quiet pool. However, I have a feeling she will love it being able to observe from a distance day 1 and on the second day she will want seats by the sexy pool.

 

So much to do!!

There's also tons of things to do! You can go scuba diving, go wind sailing or use the kayaks or hobbycats. There's the nightlife - going to Coco Bongo (so fun!!), Senior Frogs and other places. So many people think it's all about "swinging" or whatever, but you might not even encounter that type of thing at all. And if you are not looking to play - everyone totally respects that. It's all about fun and relaxation. She'll have a blast!!

 

Yeah what they say... you can have the best of both worlds thats what is so great about Temptations... do what your comfortable with... both of you.

 

I was in your boat in July when I suggested Temptation Resort to my wife. She wasn't thrilled with the idea but somehow I convinced her to go. Up until we left she was having 2nd thoughts. She told numerous times that she would never take her top off at the pool and was convinced we would spend our time at the quiet pool. About 30 minutes into our first day her top was off and never on again and we spent the entire week at the Sexy Pool just enjoying the scenery and the games. We both had such a great time that we're already in the planning stages to go back next year. It's a place like none other. It was quite possibly the best vacation I had ever been on. If you both don't have a great time, I would be shocked.

 

i wish i had a video of our first day there

i was scared shitless

lol

it all went away after the fisrt day though and we statrted having fun until a couple asked us to go with them to nice shoes for the anything goes contest

we were sitting in there and they said if anyone wants to leave - now would be the time

after we found out that t would more than likely end up butt ass naked

we walked

and thats the cool thing about the place - simply walk away with anything you are not comfortable with - there is no pressure to do anything you dont want to do.................

unless you have been there as miuch as we have - then watch out

have fun guys

rob/t