My husband and I are pretty sure we will be booking TTR mid to late September. I’ve never been topless at a pool before. Sounds fun and exciting but I’m starting to get the jitters (even though it’s 8 months away haha!!) I don’t have the best confidence in myself and am nervous. Did anyone else feel this way their first time visiting TTR and did you feel comfortable doing it?
Oh man let the reply’s start. Get ready for at least 30 reply’s. I am not a woman but most say it is liberating. It was for my wife she waited one day to go topless now she doesn’t take tops.
I felt funny !! Going on our 4th stay in April. The first time I had top on and then after 3 drinks it came off lol. It took a bit
Took my wife all of 30 seconds to feel comfortable and she never looked back. From what I see, you have absolutely nothing to be self-conscious about. You look amazing.
Just do it, and dont worry about what anyone else thinks. 90% of the women will be topless poolside, and they are all shapes and sizes, and no one will bat an eye. Itll be as if youve always been topless at a pool. Now, after creeping on your pics, you also dont have anything to be self conscuous about. Just being honest. Show up, gear down, and have a great time!
Well...we just hope we're there for the "unveiling" of all that hotness... And once you let loose - it'll only boost your self-confidence and you'll feel so carefree
Our first trip there (this week will be trip #19) Sam was on business in California and we were going to meet at Temptation. He got stuck in LA and didn't get there until the 3rd day. The first day I was scared to death (and very shy) and kept my top on and kept to myself and just watched. I noticed a section of the pool where everyone seemed to be having a lot of fun, so the second day I set up camp there and waited for the party to begin. By mid day I had gotten to know about a dozen people and lost my top. I sent Sam group pics of me and our new friends (all topless) and he couldn't believe his eyes! Needless to say, he was very excited to get there the third day. TTR people have an amazing ability to make even the shy ones feel at ease. BTW, I'm not so shy anymore!
Don't worry like so many others you will love it and it seem to be a confidence builder. Just this weekend we were at a party and my wife was telling a bunch of people about TTR. Its amazing to watch her talk about the experience of being topless. I can see almost a sense of pride when she talks abut it. Pride probably is not the best description but she get a twinkle in her eye and stands up a little straighter. As she talks about being topless all week as well as her bash outfits there is hush about the room. The woman sit on the edge of their seats in surprise, approval and often a few high fives. Woman always say something complimentary and they wish they could do it. I have seen woman half her age say they wish they were her. The guys are usually sitting with their jaws dropped and are thinking other things. Nervous and apprehensive is is normal. Let the girls out when and if it feels right. Don't feel pressured its up to you. However I will bet a round of all inclusive shots that it wont take long and you will enjoy yourself
