So it seems we are on the younger side at her being 27 and him 33 but that doesn't bother us at all. This will be our first trip, going the 24th to 28th. And Boobs Cruise the 25th. Where is the best spot to meet other lifestyle couples? Is there a hottub that is known for that?? Or other spots. Also we need some help one theme night outfits, both male and female.
LS couples? they will find you, there is no secret spot or hot tub. But then again, we are vanilla and naïve (even for TTR veterans). Some "meet and greet" perhaps. The Boobs Cruise might give you some insight. Look for the obvious signs, pineapples, black bands, close talkers (way too close for normal comfort). And conversation..."Have you done a lifestyle cruise yet?", "Do the have a club in your hometown?".... People tend to figure it out pretty quick, there is a vibe in conversation. Theme nights,...what we have learned to keep it simple and it's all about the ladies. Less is more (except for Burning Land, go all out for that). Yandy, Shein, Amazon, etc. Most nights ... booty shorts, comfy shoes, and a theme relevant top is all that is needed.
google "burning man costumes", "apocalyptical costumes" and "steampunk costumes". Maybe mix a bit of BDSM in.