I just bought a trip to Cancun Jan 24-30 staying at Temptation as a Christmas surprise present for my wife. We are both very young 30's and very fit. My wife is a gym rat with the most amazing body. We both come from conservative families and live in a rather conservative area and I am looking forward to being able to let loose a little and be able to show some skin together. We have become much more relaxed and wild lately, neither of us are in the "lifestyle" nor have plans to be, although the fantasy is sure fun for us! But we love sex and anything to do with sexiness. My wife has never gone topless in public but she hints that she is ready to do so in the right environment. I think I will have a hard time keeping any clothes on her while at Temptation! jk. I also enjoy watching her dance with others as I am not the best dancer and there is nothing like watching your sexy significant other doing sexy stuff from afar! So I am trying to get my wife a few other "items" to prepare for this trip since she won't know about it until 4 weeks prior to going. It is unclear exactly what activities are going to be happening those days we are there, the types of costumes we should be wearing, and what men wear both at the pools, events and at dinner. I think we have plenty of tiny bikinis and I just ordered her a crochet thong set and will order her a malibu thongs bikini to give to her at Christmas also. But she will also both love to get dressed up in sexy formal attire and sexy outfits/costumes for the themed events. So for those of you who know how things work at Temptation better than I do, can you please let me know what events are going on those days, which ones we definitely need to go to, and what types of costumes, lingerie, clothing we should be bringing to take full advantage of the Temptation experience. Thanks!
We'll be newbs when we next April. But just wanted to say, congradulations for going on my bday. Have some shots for us! :daveandmo:
Hi we wil b there on the 26th we have no idea what to take either just take anything that you both will feel sexy in and im sure you will both enjoy your holiday see you there fellow newbies
We get there on the 26th. You will be 2 days relaxed and topless by then I'm sure. Always good to meet new people. See you in January.........
I think it's awesome that you're surprising your wife with the trip and ordering her some stuff, but since you're going to let her know 4 weeks before, I think I'd leave her some room to shop for herself, too. We love to dress for you guys...but going out in public in what y'all pick for us can be :aktion014:... If she feels really confident in something, she'll rock it. But if it isn't what she loves, she might not feel as sexy as you'd want.:huh: She'll need at 2 or more bikinis (I take 4-5 for a week--nothing dries with the humidity), so maybe get her 1 or 2, and give her a gift certificate to pick one for herself? Same with nighttime wear--she'll need some options! Every Thursday is lingerie night and will range from babydolls to pasties. Telling her to slap pasties on and strut if she's never done something like that might backfire on you, though! Again, pick out something you'd love her in, then let her pick one, and then she can pick which is going to work for her in public and which is just for you. School girl night is the most popular theme night. That's something I think it'd be fun to be surprised with! (Check out spicylingerie.com) I think she's going to love her present this year! Laura
Good advice. I think I am going to get her 2 new bikinis to give to her with the itinerary for Christmas and then let her pick out another one or two bikinis, two costumes/lingerie and one dress. I will also need to buy a costume or two for myself and some new dinner clothes. I agree that it is a good idea to let her choose it so she feels confident in it. I would also bet that there is stuff that she will feel comfortable wearing by the end of our stay that she wouldn't even think about buying before hand. Do they sell much as far as bikinis (I guess I should say bikini bottoms) and lingerie/costumes on-site? Which night is school girl night? Thanks!
Why do we always just miss each other???? :huh: We're there March 25-30! Someday we're going to have to coordinate the springbreakers and the April Addicts for some mega-mischief!
Unfortunately, there's no place to buy stuff onsite. There is a small store with bikinis, but even after 3-days of drinking my common sense away, I choked on the price tags. You're way better off brining your own. You're totally right about the fact that her ideas about what she'll wear will get more liberal as the trip wears on. Definitely have a few things in the suitcase that, before your trip, she thinks she'd never wear--cuz by about day 3 she'll probably want them!
