I didn't really like my x girlfriend until she got with a new b/friend now i think i really like her!!! is this just my ego or not?
That happens a lot ... you want what you can't have ... the grass looks greener on the other side, but really, it's not. If she's moved on, you should move on ... there's a lot of fish in the sea.
I once had a friend thinking of getting a divorce because she was bored wiht her hubby...I told her to picture him walking down the street with another woman...how did that make her feel. She got all teary eyed and they are still together many years after that conversation. Anyhoo if you did not like her before chances are you still won't and yeah its a bit of ego. Good luck!
Sounds to me like you want to humiliate her new boyfriend, just to see if you can. Been there done that. If you didnt like her before what has changed for you to like her now, other than her new guy? If you broke up, you broke up for a reason. I'd just move on and find someone else, and until that happens have fun testing the waters. When you do find her you will know.
As the old saying goes, "you snooze, you loose". Many women simply won't wait for the guy to wake up and "be the man he can be." My mother was VERY firm about me not bringing home someone and saying "but he has soooo much potential." In your post, you stated that you didn't even "like" her. Then you go on to say the you "think" you like her now............so I question why you would even call her your "girlfriend" in the first place. As others have said, she's moved on, so should you..... Michelle
