So, because I consider some of you to be fairly close I have decided to ask some advice.. If an ex of two years decides to contact you out of the blue after blowing you off when you extended your hand in a truce how would you react? I'm talking.. two years since it's been over. but it was roughly a 3 year relationship.. I am boggled by this.. you women absolutely amaze me..
I'd ignore her. She'd found someone else and got rid of you. Now that person has probably done the dirty on her so she's looking for Mr Reliable, so she can be back in charge for a while.
but seeing as shes the one who made contact, she probably wants something ... which means you can use that to your advantage :wink:
ok, my advise bruv would be to talk, without communication theres nothing ok, meet up or sumthing have a talk find out the in's and out's of why shes contacted you and ykno dnt be afriad to be like well u blew me off now u want me back yknow whats up with tht.... fact of the matter is mate if you love the girl then u gota think can u forget the crappy thngs shes done and try again or is it to much. we can only advise at the end of the day its your word thats guna make the final call best of luck bro
Could be all kinds of reasons. Maybe in the two years that you were apart that she's had some bad relationships and now realizes what she had and it was better than anything she was just through. Although, woudn't rush anything and just see what happens for a while.
All of your advice is greatly appreciated. I am taking it one day at a time and I understand that these things are very complicated.. especially when feelings get involved.. I guess I'll just have to "take the road less traveled" and see where it leads me Nicky
