We are thinking about booking DRM or Temptation. We are torn because we love that DRM is couples only, but not yet sure if we want to be bottomless (we are ok with other people being fully nude). We like Temptation because it is topless only, but are worried about singles and male groups allowed. Anyone have experience with both that could provide some direction would be appreciated.
Remember, both Desire properties are "clothing optional" not nude required - you get to choose how much or how little you decide to wear at any given moment As long as you are comfortable being in relatively close quarters with others that choose to be fully nude you'll be fine. IMHO you may surprise yourselves after a day (or sometime hours) after being there and decide to go full monty
We go to both and would be glad to help if you can better define the kind of concerns that cause worry about single men and groups of single men. FYI - There are rules and people are bound by them so if a “no thanks” is not enough to deter a single guys interest then you can escalate easily to friends, staff or security as needed and be supported in your ask for the issue to be managed.
Definitely Desire! You can keep your bottoms on at Desire. Temptation has too many creepy vanilla single guys who don't know how to behave. We've been to both and there's no comparison, Desire is much better for couples!
DRM is clothing-optional, and there's no pressure to get all the way nude if you do not wish to do so. If you do, fine. If you don't, fine. It's way relaxed, and the lack of singles - of both genders - keeps it a bit more relaxed, easy-going and loose. TTR's a huge party, with singles on the prowl, trying to work the connections, and that IS fun, too, but it is just different. Depends onw hat it is that you want. We did both twice this past year (TTR in March & July) and DRM in April and October, and those feelings played out true again. Good times, but different, at both. PM if you've got more questions.
Book it and forget it. You’ll never want to go back to TTR, at least that’s how we feel now. Loved TTR until we went to Desire RM, and Desire Pearl. But TTR is good just to get you into the swing of things, transition from regular life to Vacation mode. BTW we only do topless so far and not into swinging either, Enjoy.
We visited DRM on a day pass from Temptation this past June. Our general observations from being at both places in the same month is that TTR is significantly bigger, but we enjoyed DRM a lot more. It seemed like only about half of the guests at DRM were bottomless (though virtually all women were topless). Because DRM is smaller, it just seemed easier for us to "integrate" and meet more people. Honestly, we fell in love with DRM - everything about it - and can't wait to go back for a full week in April!
Hey NJ, My husband and I started with Hedo in Jamaica a few years back and now we only do DRM. We try to go twice a year. The people you meet are amazing and open minded. The nudity is so awe inspiring to see all the different body types and their confidence. Their motto is sexy comes in all shapes and sizes and it is so true!!! At DRM there is no singles allow (unlike Hedo, which made me uncomfortable with the prowlers). If you have never been I would say give it a try and come with an open mind. Enjoy!!! We’ll be back in May ‘19.
