Hey guys, My wife and I are planning to stay either at Temptation or Desire in early September. We are looking for a sexy vacation with adults. We are in our later 20's and this will be her first time, besides a beach in Miami, to be in a topless environment and she will want to take that leap when she's comfortable without feeling pressured. So, ladies, do you feel pressured to be topless or are people cool with letting you do it in your own time? Thank you
You couldn't ask for a better place to take that leap than Temptation! Never any pressure to do anything but have a great time and be yourself!
Several trips ago, my wife was anxious and never felt any pressure - just gentle sexy encouragement from (the lady half of) new found friends...
There were several last year that their tops never came off and I didn't see anyone pointing fingers, talking about it or pressuring them to do it. It took my wife about a day before hers came off and the group of people we were with didn't care or pressure her. I wasn't going to pressure her into doing it either, my mother didn't raise a fool. LOL Temptation isn't like every day life back home, there motto "Nobody Knows You And Nobody Gives A Shit" is very true and must be experienced. T I will add that when there are 70 ladies without tops and 5 with....You kinda feel odd ball out, (like what's wrong with you?) I did anyway, I had told Tim it wasn't coming off, but after a few drinks and thinking of the motto of 'No one Knows you. and No one gives a shit' I joined the masses!! LOL D
There is zero pressure at Temptation for anyone to take their top off. I've been there 4 times and I didn't take off my top until the 4th visit. However, if you go on a Boobs Cruise, they try to get all the ladies to take off the bikini tops at the beginning of the cruise. There's a little pressure there, but if you don't want to remove it, they'll leave you alone and you'll still have tons of fun. -Mrs Cheers
We just got back from TTR for 7 day and I never felt pressure to be topless but I did not bring any tops with me soooooo. There are plenty of people that will have a top on one day and not the next then go back to wearing their tops. It is all about how they felt that day. There was one instance where there was pressure from another couple who where in the LS and where interested in my hubb and I. I was not feeling it so I played it down and said we aren't really into it. The guy actually said something to me about it later which I found RUDE. We walked away found some other fun people and did not chat with them again. So can there be pressure Yes but if you are comfortable with yourself and you have your spouse to back you up there is no reason to worry and I say Jump in ,unless your in the belly flop contest, feet first.
sometimes a little pressure is just what we need. honestly, if I was one of a small minority of women who kept her top on in a topless environment I would find that to be pressure.....but positive pressure.
I've taken A few female friends to the nudie beach and they were terrified at first. But once they see everyone else showing skin and that no one really cares, then they all ended up stripping and feeling comfy. Good thing about Temptation is that it's adult only.
