Dave and Ellie

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun' started by Steve, Jan 24, 2011.

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  1. Steve

    Steve Administrator Owner

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    I didnt want to highjack the apology thread, but regarding Dave and Ellie's re-emergence as 'piercedvacpl'.

    Dave emailed me a week ago asking me to be let back, he told me he had been through therapy which had really helped him with his issues and was a changed person. He promised that there wouldnt be any repeat of the behaviour that led to his banning in the first place.

    I guess I'm too trusting and eventually allowed him to make a new username and start afresh as a 'normal' person. I honestly felt that I was helping someone with their rehabilitation back to normality.

    Anyway, it's clear that he hasnt changed much after all and he's already back to his old ways of crude remarks and picking fights. He's also abused the trust I put in him by lifting the ban. So he's banned again.

    Apologies to anyone he may have offended again, it was a mistake on my part to let him back but a well intentioned one. There will be no more chances.
     
  2. halifaxdan

    halifaxdan I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    You're a good man Steve and no one could ever fault you for giving someone a second chance. I believe we've all had times when we needed a second chance
     
  3. SJCT

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    Steve - as a practicing psychotherapist who has treated more than one person like this individual, thank you for giving him the chance; Halifaxdan is right about folks needing a second chance. Thanks also, however, for drawing a line for both his sake AND ours!
     
  4. jeff & deb

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    What I'm seeing is how aware people are on this site... rumor had it that there was a possibilility that they or he was back on line.. Huh way to go people. And thank you Steve for keeping our backs..
     
  5. backs13

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    I dont think you have any reason to apologize steve, you gave them a 2nd chance with nothing but good intentions on your part. Just cant believe that after only a week back, he was rudely commenting again... some people never learn I guess
     
  6. us2933

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    Totally agree with Backs. Well done on both accounts Steve - ps I know that sounds patronising but I can't think of any other way to put it sorry lol. :doh:

    Lynfa x
     
  7. Hunter&Gina-NC

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    Thanks for all you do. I hope I get to meet you at TTR sometime. I think some of the contestants me and Gina were lucky enough to meet said you were coming after we left.
     
  8. Brewster

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    How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb? Just one, but it has to want to change.

    Thanks Steve. You're a good guy!
     
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  9. Jamie

    Jamie Mayor of Temptation Registered Member

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    Well done Steve, on both counts as was said.

    I agree with Backs... took less that 18 posts to show he hadn't changed and really you could see where it was headed after about 7. Oh well...

    Onto Titties and Beer! :) (for those that weren't here before that's how we toasted the end of the drama last time. ;) )

    Jamie
     
  10. meanestkitty

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    woah

    I guess we missed a lot of previous drama.
     
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