We had a fantastic time and did meet some very nice people. We are a little more on the quiet side, however, so we felt a little left out when it came to a few nighttime activities. We were eager to meet a woman to add to our experience, but were a bit unsure what etiquette to follow since we found ourselves surrounded primarily by couples. Either way we had a great time and plan on returning soon. Any general advice would be great as a reply. Thanks!
Cancun Swingers | Lifestyle Couples in Cancun | Cancun Swingers But also, try exploring with another couple first, its tough to find a single girl to play. It does happen, but it's easier with another couple and gets lingering questions out of the way faster.
I think finding a single girl who wants to play on her own with somebody else is probably still a tough job, so finding a girl who wants to play with a couple is at least double that. Not sure where to suggest, I'd say at Desire you'd have more luck, but even then that to me sounds like a couple's resort. Then again, I'd never say never, you might get lucky. I guess advice is the same as what singles say going to TTR: go with a mind to have fun first of all with great people, and if something happens, then enjoy it!
With respect to feeling a bit left out, I'd suggest jumping into the theme nights (assuming you are at TTR when there is a decent-sized group from CCC to get the theme nights off the ground). You'd be amazed how it will pull you out of your shell and make you more a part of the group. As for finding a woman on her own to join you, I was told that such women are called "unicorns": there are rumours of their existence, but no one has ever actually seen one lol
just my 2 cent worth..... if you are looking at TTR and suspect that a good looking woman(and there are many) is alone and you do approach her about the topic. You had better first ask if she is there alone! ALWAYS get approval before making passes. You would be surprised that even though couple are together they will play separate if approval is given. But there are the people, some single guy and even married ones, that decide they are the cats ass and will hit on any woman without caring about the husband. Wrong move! Husbands are there to have a good time and though the wife is not their "possession" they have a right to be informed and in the loop about flirtatious activity. Respect is the word of the day at TTR, if you have that, do like Karen said and join in the theme nights you will be pulled into a lot of conversation and events you normally wouldn't. My wife is shy and quiet also and we had much the same experience our first trip but it didn't hinder us seeing as though I am a bit of an obnoxious idiot at times. Find yourself a comfy spot at the swim up bar and you will see all the people that come to the bar will always talk to you. just keep the conversation going and you will find more and more people with the same "interests".
They do exist. It's be a matter of finding the meadows that they frequent. For a variety of reasons I'm doubting that a large number of them can be found at resorts, but if they could be a place like Temptation would be it.
