Well, I hate to sound like a NOOB to this sort of vacation, but I am. I come from South Dakota (Midwest of the U.S.) and have not been on any vacations where there may be topless women. I my area of the country even a thong bikini would be completely out of place. Anyways, I was wondering what the polite way to handle this new situation without seeming like a creeper. I do understand that the way a woman views how much of a "creeper" a man is directly related to his looks. If a man looks like Brad Pitt he can stare directly at someone and not be a creeper. If he looks like Steve Buchemi he should avert his eyes at all times. I am in the middle and don't want to offend anyone.
Just a quick peek and if the gal catches you, say "Nice shoes"! You'll understand this once you are at TTR.
The hardest part will be trying to keep your jaw off the ground until you get accustomed to the view.
This is so very true.. Figured I would probably get myself in trouble the entire week with the wife asking me what I am looking at all the time.. Nope, after about the first 20 minutes at the sexy pool it was no big deal...
A non-creeper is the guy who looks, smiles and thinks "wow...her husband/bf is a lucky bastard. Mental high-five." A creeper is the guy who leers, drools and thinks "mmmmmm...she took her top off, that means she'll play with everyone and she's up for grabs. And the fact that she's letting her friends do body shots off of her means I can go over and touch without permission."
You sure you guys haven't been yet?? Great answer. Remember: glance and smile, don't stare and leer. But if you have to be told that, well... Another bit of advice: 99% of the people I've talked to at TTR have been super-friendly. And that includes the women you might find drool-worthy, AND their significant others. GO TALK TO THEM INSTEAD! Talk to everybody! You'll remember the friends you make a whole lot longer and fonder than "that great pair of boobs I saw once."
