Hi all Hoping to go with my boyfriend to Cancun in May, first time. I've read online that guys in bars/clubs can be quite pushy, even if a girl is out with a guy. ie be very forward, and groping etc. This is actually what I'm looking for... We're not really Couples resort people (boyfriend doesn't really want to go to Temptations) but we both enjoy me getting lots of attention and hooking up in clubs - the dirtier the better Somewhere I can wear revealing clothes, lots of up for it single guys (not too young, I'm 30), but not a Swingers place. Cheap and cheesey is what we want, body shots, sexy stage games, frisky behaviour etc. But places we can flit in and out of rather than pay $100 to stay the whole night... Many thanks for any suggestions... xx
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Thanks but that's a swingers page. I want to avoid pre-arranged stuff because we've tried it in the past and it innevitably ends up with the guy expecting sex, and awkward situations. I just want a really wild environment full of very keen guys where there is no expectation of sex or even nudity, but i can be as naughty as i wish... ie let them 'pull' me. Any bar/club or even hotel ideas? Thanks...
Think Magaluf for the slightly older... I like the sound of Patty O's to be honest, sounds fun, but not keen on the idea of spending all week in the same place... Would rather roam free... :lotsofmichaelfs:
Winner of the most confusing post of the year You want to be hit on aggressively, groped by single guys, get dirt attention, hook up in clubs , wear revealing clothes, mingle with lots of single guys, sexy games, body shots , yet NOT a swingers place You just described Temptation Patio,s in March ,
Hi. Thanks for the replies. I read about Congo Bongos but it seemed like more an entertainment venue than a dive bar. Patty O's does sound like a winner in Feb but I'm commited to May. I can see how it sounds confusing Donald... For the record i didnt say i wanted to be hit on aggressively, but confident guys willing to take the lead would be nice- I'm a bit shy to start with. Pushy is ok with me. To be totally honest we're not swingers, we don't really want to socialise with our clothes off, and don't want to partner swap. But we do enjoy a sexy edge and we BOTH like to see me getting flirty and dirty in bars, and are happy for that go as far as i like depending on the guy. We've tried swinging and we've tried doing stuff in normal bars. Swinging is awkward to us, and in normal bars guys are put off that I'm out with my boyfriend... So a free-for-all care-free environment is what we need. Stage games etc help with the flirting and showing off. Xx
I was confused that she would want guys to it on her will she's in realving clothes, grope her and NOT expect sex.... I don't know about ALL guys but most I know, including me, is if I'm rubbing my hands on you I have sex on my mind. May not get it, but it's on my mind. Jamie
Yeah of course... But being in a public situation if I didn't fancy it then it's easy to say no thanks and find someone else, because there's no expectation for frollics jn a nightclub to go the whole way. Anyway, digressing a bit... I know our views are not mainstream... Thats probably why we're not swingers
