We are definitely doing a combo trip. We went to TTR last year and loved it. But we can see how it makes up for luxury with the party atmosphere. We want to have a few party days and then spend 4 nights at one of the desires. I have been reading comments but I am not exactly clear. Sounds to me like pearl is the most luxury. For the nights we are looking at there is not too much of a price difference between Pearl and RM. Does being the most luxurious mean its more boring? Is there still a good time to be had? Still people to party with? Is RM more of a party than pearl? Is it a younger or older or mix at either resort? Is it super open and no judgey like TTR. Do you have to be a size 0 to feel comfortable? We appreciate your thoughts. We have 4 kiddos and need an amazing vacation!