My wife and I are in need of some excitement. We're not swingers, and I don't see that changing. But we need a bit of spice. We're both shy, her especially, and I think we need to place ourselves in an environment where our inhibitions can be lowered and we can stop being so damn uptight all the time, even with each other. Especially wth each other. Yep, that's where were at. I think temptations might be just the place, risque without being over the top. I'm thinking about booking it as a surprise because she'd probably be too self-consious to agree but I think she'd have fun once we were there... Also we have been to "regular" all-inclusives as a couple, and as part of big groups (including our wedding) and after going as a group they can be a bit dull as a couple if they don't encourage socialization... My main concern is the age group. We're early 30s, and no offence to the older crowd, but if there's isn't a fairly large contingent of people our age I think we'd be uncomfortable. Edit: I have read through some other threads where people were a bit sensitive about the age issue, so I want to clarify that I would me more than cool with partying with fun older people, but nonetheless don't want to be the only 30 year old there.
I'm 31 had a heck of a great time. There was big mix though 20''s 30's and on. Kinda great Learned LOTS from the older crowd but never felt out of place.Yall will have a great time!!
I was in my early 30's and my husband was in his late 30's the last time we went (5 years ago). Ages varied. When we were there I would say the majority were 30s and 40s. We had an absolute blast, with the younger and older crowd both. Atmosphere was great, relaxed, like no other. Participation is contingent upon your desires. You can be as active or reserved as you choose. You will have a blast. We actually are booked to go back July 30-Aug 5. We made sure we booked a whole week this go around.
21-80! All are welcome. Old and young meld and age is just a number. I guarantee you have found your place and you can be as shy or as outgoing as you please. Recall that nobody knows you and nobody gives a shit! Let it go and have a great time and you will revisit. Do not be too shy to engage in friendly conversation and fun times will ensue. Be bold and visit and let me be the first to welcome you to our family! And try a Boobs Cruie, maybe not the first visit when you are getting your feet wet, but when you do go at the beginning of your stay to meet folks and bond. And be sure it is not your first or last full day...you will figure it out and come to understand! Current schedule is Mondays abd Fridays.
Yeah I wouldn’t worry about the age thing. We have experienced a much younger dynamic with our 3 trips to the new TTR. There are definitely plenty of 30 something’s. Still less than 40 something’s but not so little that you would feel out of place. I would be much more focused on whether the surprise approach is the right approach if I was you. Have seen this go horribly wrong for people. Husband and wife fighting saying I can’t beleive you brought me here. Staying in the corner of the beach or quiet pool. Wife all pissed off. Sitting at dinner not talking. I would instead show her this site. Explain why you think this would be fun. Clarify that TTR is as much about the party and having fun than anything else. And yes while it will be something outside of your comfort zone that isn’t a bad thing. Most importantly is you are in this together and are not going to meet other people or do anything that either of you don’t want to do. TTR can be and should be about you two connecting and having fun together. Keep it simple and go from there.
..........and there are freaks like us that are in our 60's that refuse to grow old. We've been going for years and have never felt out of our element... Age is just a number with more aches and pains. Tequila really helps with that!
I second Jen & Kyle. We have met couples who the man surprised the lady and either she parks them at the quiet pool all day everyday and complains and feels out of place or worst we have seen flat out fights. I say prep her for the fun. The outfit shopping is half the fun in gaining the excitement for the upcoming trip. I have fun shopping for bikinis, hats, and of course theme nights. And we find lots of range in age. No worries there.
You will have a blast! I was a nervous wreck the first time I went and had an escape back up hotel all ready. Now we won't go anywhere else. Every other place is too boring : ) The age groups won't be a factor.
I agree with Kyle, that you want to be on the same page, but maybe you know your situation pretty well, and know how far it can be pushed. On our last trip, it was day one or two. We were walking on the beach in the morning. There was this smoking hot, very young couple there (20's?) and he was putting lotion on her. She had her top on, but it was untied, and he was trying to rub her chest, but she was making sure she was always covered, and was stopping him. Later that day, while the pool games are going on, they are sitting pool side, and watching the games. I noticed her being drawn into them pretty good. Fast forward to late afternoon. She was on top of the bar dancing with three other girls, and they were doing shots off of her nipples. It looked pretty much like that was her first time for any of it, but she sure seemed to be enjoying it. We didn't see them again, but I'm pretty sure it was their last day, and she finally let lose. If you're a gambling man, sometime you hit jackpot. I'm sure results can vary....
Started going at 30, and the wife was 29. Had no problems fitting in with older, but at that time (5 years ago) we were on the lower end of the age scale. Still were plenty around our age, but very few younger. Some are saying that the age demo is getting a little lower, but I haven't seen that yet. I would 100% recommend the resort to anyone in their mid to late 20s and above. Not so much 21-25 though. As other have stated, I would not, and I mean 100% recommend a "surprise" trip to Temptation. Unless your wife is a complete party machine, loves surprises, and doesn't get the least bit jealous.
