We are going to TTR in June of course family now want to go my wife's nephew and a male friend (very nice kids) but don't know how open minded he would be and I know my wife won't be her normal self (normal bathing suit no thongs that I love so much. Also her female cousin and female friend both goodlooking but they are family and friend from back home. So my dilemma is what resort should I send the nephew and and male friend but were they would enjoy their self and have fun the females I'm sure we can get them into doing something wild. Or should we even travel with family to TTR? I'll be jumping on a plane right now and may not be able to respond to feedback but I promise we will read them all.
Don't quit follow your question , but if ,,it's you want to be on your own , then just say,, '' this is like our second honeymoon and our bonding time, we wish to be on our own''
I would try and ditch them! Best thing for our marriage and ourselves. I WOULD NOT want to worry about what they are thinking and saying "oh there they go again-those crazies!" If you have been there before then you know-it's a very special place that is shared with people that you are totally comfortable being your crazy, sexy self around.
That would be very uncomfortable for me. This has been discussed in another link before. http://www.cancuncare.com/forum/tem...r-run-into-relative-ttr.html?highlight=family Dawn
Have to agree. The whole great thing about TTR is being able to completely let loose, knowing everyone else there came for that same reason and no one back home has to know anything you don't choose to tell them. I second the "second honeymoon" excuse. It seems a little ballsy that they all just assume they're welcome on your trip?
For us there is a time and place for family . What we have said to friend and family ,in the past , we take one trip a year as a couple and that seems to work.
We go in June every year because it is our anniversary. I never have any family ask to come along on our anniversary trip. IF THEY ONLY KNEW HOW WE WERE CELEBRATING :icon_smile: Dawn
Hahaha It's our anniversary actually too, but not really planned like that, it just works out that way.
