A couple of noobs, one with boobs...

Hey everyone, been lurking on here for the past few months in preparation for the our honeymoon at TTR on May 1. We have a couple of questions/observations:

First of all, you people look like you are an absolute friggin riot. We are a couple who has been together for 9 years and will be newly married when we arrive. We've dabbled in the lifestyle a bit, and we both know how to put away the booze HARD. We have a problem though: We're both overweight. I (Tony) am 5'7 and about 250 and BigMomma is 5'7 and about a midget heavier than that. What is the experience like for large people at the resort? I could care less about ME...I may very well rock a Speedo and not care. BigMomma on the otherhand....not so much...even though SHE refers to herself as BigMomma, she's VERY self conscious. After a few drinks who knows. (For the guys, they're 44DDD, natural, and OH so lovely.) Just curious what we're getting ourselves into...Thanks in advance for any input!

 

You will have a blast. Weight does not matter one bit at TTR. Have a look at my photos. Hubby and I are both overweight (and not just oh I can't fit into my size 10's anymore). People genuinely don't care, and if they do, they're not the sort you want to be hanging around with, and neither will anyone else!

Seriously, if you're self conscious, you won't be at TTR. There's no room for it. Everybody gets on, and there's people of all shapes and sizes, so nobody really cares.

You look like a lovely couple, so go have fun and enjoy your honeymoon!!

 

Nothing to worry about at TTR. You will fit in just fine. The only people we ever see NOT having a good time are those that CHOOSE not to enjoy themselves.

 

You'll never have a prob at TTR folks! Just go and be yourselves! Hell, we could all use some extra 44 triple D's in April!! LOL

 

no worries

Hey you guys cant wait to meet you guys!!!!!!!!!! Congrats on the honeymoon part too!!! Like they say at TTR "nobody knows you and nobody gives a shit" and the people we have met here over last 8 trips are open and non-judgemental.....

 

One tip for ya - If you don't want people to make fun of you, Don't pass out at the pool or bar. Other than that - party hard cause most people that visit TTR don't judge and those that do post on tripadvisor.:icon_wink: The majority of us like TTR not only because it is fun but also due to the acceptance we recieve by others. Lifestylers, swayers, straights and gays all get along as long as you don't spill their drinks or steal their chairs.

Congrats on the wedding and welcome to the party.

 

Very well put....you will have a great time!!! We have had a great time with all we have met all shapes, sizes and colors!! (as they say) BUT don't steal somebody's chair...that makes me laugh!!! Hope you have a honeymoon full of great memories!!!!:icon_biggrin:

 

Congrats!!! Have a great time! Wish we were going to be there with you!

 

Congratulations on your wedding! I promise you won't feel judged at TTR, but from a fellow self-conscious woman's point of view, I can understand the concern.

My advice would be to do everything you can to assure BigMomma that there's no pressure to wear or do anything, that she's in control, that she can do what she wants at her own pace, and that you will love and respect her no matter what.

Give her lots of compliments--try to help her see herself the way you see her, not the way Cosmo editors see her. Compliment her in front of the group at the sexy pool, and I bet others in the group will chime in their agreement=great confidence booster!

 

Welcome to the Party! We are going to be there the same time as you. Ditto to what James said above, everyone the first week of May is awesome...you picked a great time to go! Let loose and have fun!