Hey I’m 28 years old & me and my husband 1st time going to Temptation is in June. We aren’t in the lifestyle but wanted to know can we still have a great time without being in the lifestyle. I don’t want to be topless but I also don’t want people to pressure me into doing it. I just want to have a great time with great vibes. I don’t mind meeting new people but I don’t want to be pressured into doing anything & I want to know what is the vibes nowadays ?
You will have a blast….if you want to. Between this site (and others) find people going the same time and “meet” virtually, be upfront that you are not LS (or where your boundaries are) and “like” people will find like people. Be ready that you may move some of your boundaries while there. We have met people for the first time there and now regularly connect with them on trips when it works (we are not LS either - though we were told last trip we are “LS adjacent”???). Sounded cool and probably accurate? Plan to participate in the themes, be careful of sending mixed signals and “try” to be in sync with your partner on expectations overall (not always easy once the party starts). You can probably get any question you have by searching or asking on here.
