Hi all, So... My wife & I try to get away once a year (i know typical right?) but it usually includes the kids — which if I'm being fair is usually my jam, I love spending time with all of us together, I L O V E spending time with the family — her Desire is to head out jussss the two of us . Last trip as a couple (we are a family of 6 ) was almost 5 years ago at Key West -Waldorf Estoria. We booked it during the PlanDemic, but the day after we landed, Gov DeSantis removed all the restrictions! ♀️ I will tell you, it was A WILD WEEK . We are the type of social butterflies who like to stay somewhere until it closes (if/when we meet the right people right atmosphere) which actually happens quite a bit. We just love to talk & connect with like minded people ♂️ (we even got invited back to a private island from a musician we met no it's not what you're thinking♂️). So, when I found a great price to travel to Cancun...I sent a quick text with a link to TTR with a "Hey, so what do you think about going jussss the two of us...in December?" She seriously texted back 30 seconds later: YES! Now we've been to a nudist colony before, as guests of the band who was performing. No we didn't undress, as the theme was a concert and dancing. Although there were a few topless and full nude people (obviously), which didn't bother us. Having said all of that (and hopefully you haven't fallen asleep yet either) I don't think she's actually looked at the resort yet. I told her that we should probably get some clothes for the themed nights, & she didn't really sound interested...I said "haven't you looked at the resort yet??" — "Nope, I don't care, ad long as it's just the two of us & adults only then I'm good!" Uh... Hmmm... Well... Ok. ♂️ HERE'S MY QUESTION: Do i leave this as a surprise (don't worry, she's not a prude) and let this happen organically, as in we show up and be somewhat surprised? (It's kinda hot to think about the surprise part too right?) Or... Do i make it very plain about topless optional. Or, let her eventually see it on her own? Appreciate you guys, and YES very excited to be out in December!!! Let me know your thoughts ladies (and gentlemens). _j_
If you don’t plan for the theme nights in advance and you are having a good time otherwise at the sexy pool you will feel like you missed out or you will spend too much at the hotel shop trying to last minute some ideas. A lot of the fun is before you even get there packing things you never thought you would wear at the pool or a dance club and then going well past that line. Suggest you both spend time on here and then just search every possible question or idea that pops into your heads… you will find way more accurate and useful info here than any other site. Also find people on the roll call going same dates and have a couple of virtual friends before you even get there. PS. It’s not all nude, only topless at the pool.
Gotcha, appreciate the advice...I think you're right. Although if i know my wifey well (32 years well ) she will have researched everything well in advance even though she says otherwise...hahahhahah but yea I'll double make sure she knows. The question is when Thanks again! _j_
